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How To Say A Few Words When You Are Not Prepared

Topic: Stage Fright and Overcoming Stage FrightBy Sandra ZimmerPublished Recently added

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Speaking in groups and meetings is an essential skill for every business professional. You are expected to be able to share your ideas, expertise and experience to contribute to your company’s success. If you can’t speak up and speak out, you hit a glass ceiling past which you can’t advance in your company. So, how do you prepare to speak when you are not prepared and they ask you to say a few words at your department meeting?

Our advanced speaking class at The Self-Expression Center is exploring just this situation. We are learning the value of creating a message template that is unique to each individual. A message template is a brief one-minute talk that articulates the message you were born to deliver or the one for which you want to be known. Your unique message should be one for which you have passion, one for which you are willing to take a stand because you believe so much in it. It should be a universal message that has truth no matter what.

Spend some quiet time thinking about the universal truth that is most important for you. Write a one minute talk that expresses your highest thoughts that you would feel willing to share in a business setting. Practice your message template until it rolls off your tongue effortlessly.

When you are asked to say a few words, use your template message ideas to focus your thoughts about the topic at hand. It anchors your thoughts when you have to speak without much preparation.

Some tips for using your template message are:

Use your message template to deliver a message not just a one-time response. n

When saying a few words, start with the current situation and weave your template message ideas into a brief talk about the current situation. n

Speak about what you do know, don’t worry about what you don’t know. n

Use your template message often. You do not have to create new material every time you talk. n

Think of the message template as your cheat sheet. It will help make impromptu speaking easier n

Aside from the obvious help a template message gives when speaking impromptu, it also helps establish your leadership platform. Use it often to develop your reputation as a leader.

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Sandra Zimmer works with high achievers who are struggling with communication and who may be uncomfortable speaking in groups. She helps them transform the way they express who they are so they feel confident to share their ideas, insights and expertise. Sandra has developed the Zimmer Method for Authentic Communication. Her method guides people through an experiential process that connects them to their natural abilities to express themselves when they speak, present, perform, sell or persuade. Sandra is the president of Sandra Zimmer & Associates, Inc and the founder of The Self-Expression Center in Houston, Texas. She holds an M.A. in Theater from The University of Houston, a B.A. in Psychology from the University of Texas and is a Certified Lessac Voice Teacher. Additionally, she has more than 30 years of experience in the field of self-awareness. Sandra Zimmer can be contacted at The Self-Expression Center, www.self-expression.com, sandra@self-expression.com and 281-293-7070.

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