How To Approach A Woman And Get Her Phone Number

Let me share with you some tips on how to approach women and get phone numbers fast -- mainly how to get a girls phone number during the day time. These are essential techniques to learn, because I'm sure you are seeing gorgeous single women on a daily basis and not taking advantage of these situations. Consider this for a moment. When's the last time you saw a hot girl during the daytime that you wanted to get to know, but you didn't go for it -- because you had no idea WHAT to say to her? The ordinary guy worries too much about how he is going to carry on an extended conversation. They might feel okay with the idea of approaching women at bars, or parties..."social" locations where it seems more appropriate to approach girls and talk to them. (Especially if the booze is flowing.) Sadly, this is the case with a lot of guys. Outside of "social" environments such as parties and bars, these guys just aren't comfortable approaching girls and striking up random conversations. I've got the remedy to this problem. First, you've got to stop worring about having long, drawn-out conversations with women you've just met. All you need to do is focus on getting her information (name, phone number & email address). Once you have this information, you're going to politely end the conversation and you will contact her soon to see her again. You can learn how to get a girls phone number in less than 5 minutes. And if you use this technique, you'll actually amass MORE phone numbers than you'd get by trying to talk to every girl you meet for 20 minutes and dragging out the conversation. See, the longer you try to talk to a girl you just met, the greater the likelihood that she'll "disqualify" you for saying something stupid, or saying or doing something that she just doesn't find attractive. First, always carry a small pad of paper and a pen with you. ALWAYS. There are a variety of reasons for doing this, and one of them is to accumulate digits from girls. Instead of taking the time to program her info into your phone, it's more casual to hand her the paper and pen and have her write down her info for you. Here's how easy it can be to approach a woman and get her phone number. All you need to do is make an observation about her. Notice a detail of her appearance. Maybe she's wearing a trendy blouse or jeans, or carrying a cool-looking purse. Or, you might notice she's got a cool new model of cell phone. Now all you need to do it point out that detail and mention to her that you want to buy something similar for a friend of yours who has a birthday coming up. "Hey, I couldn't help noticing your ______. My friend Jennifer has a birthday coming up and I need to pick out a gift, I think she'd love something like that...where did you get it?" This detail that you notice can be any number of things. If you're talking to a girl at the supermarket, you might notice an item she has in her shopping cart and say, "Pardon me, I'm hosting a dinner party for some friends tonight and I'm trying to figure out a dessert that I can whip up...something that's not too difficult to make, and that everyone will like. What would you recommend?" If you want to know how to approach a woman at a bookstore (and acquire her number), use the same principle: "Hey, is that book you're reading any good? I'm trying to choose a birthday gift for a friend -- she's a girl the same age as you -- and I'm wondering if you've read anything really good lately?" Let her answer. You only need to have a few minutes of conversation with her, and then say, "I appreciate your advice, I'm going to go pick that up for my friend. Hey, do you have an email address? I'll let you know if my gift gets a good reaction." Virtually every time the girl will say "yes" and now you're going to get her personal info. (Notice, you didn't ask her if you can HAVE her email address. You asked "if she has email." And every girl does, of course. The trick is, you act like she is now offering to give it you...and naturally, she will.) So now you smoothly take out your pen and notepad and hand them to her. Act like this is a totally normal next step. Then, as she writes down her email address, you say "jot down your number also. Oh, and I didn't catch your name..." By acting as if it's totally normal for you to give you her information, she'll feel perfectly okay doing so. She won't question it. Here's something important to remember about approaching women -- it's when you ASK PERMISSION for a girl's information that she might think twice about it. So don't ask permission. Just get her contact info. After she gives it to you, wish her a good day and walk away. End the interaction on a positive note. You can make contact with her the next day and take things to the next step. Learning how to approach women and get phone numbers is just one of the hundreds of techniques you'll want to know. And as for how you're going to plan this "next meet" with her, I've got some very strong tactics to guarantee a successful outcome...