Influences in our life!

As an adult I could find it better to leave the past alone, believing that "past is past, cannot do anything about it turn now." But it's more than that, because my life is a journey influenced by parents teachers, family and other important relationships. These people helped shape my man I am today. Unfortunately, it is possible that some of them have been negative influences they can actually sabotage my true reality. I'm back in childhood. What are and why they need all young children? Mostly to feel loved, safe, to get attention and feel important. Children look at the important people in their lives to be guided by models and to guide them and often adopt their attitude. Children can shape their behavior is expected any of them. "Be polite", "Be quiet," "Be brave." Universe of children is dominated of great people on which their lives. As children learn that if we misbehaved, great men may withdraw their love and even threaten us as we leave. Slowly, slowly, remove those parts of our nature that we consider to be bad, shame or lack of. By adolescence, may have thrown some of the innate talents, because they were not considered good enough or worthy to follow. "You will never become a doctor, you are not able to take 10s" flip side is when parents use too much pressure to force a teenager or a college graduate to pursue a career that is only because it is a tradition family or they want for their child what they have not been able to reach. Have you noticed someone who was forced to assume a role that is not appropriate? It's frustrating. Install resentment and the person feels he is trapped. Perhaps the real talent trying to break free. A long time ago and I threw in the dustbin of my trial potential. I still struggle to get it back because it's never too late to re-ignite flame of my personality and follow a dream that I buried long ago... I threw a talent, ambition or my need for emotional to be loved, accepted and included... These things are still buried in me from my true identity. I wish though that some old models disappear and my boy aggression not to come to the surface in a very masculine. I want to discover my natural personality and femininity even if they can get a weak personality, but you stop faking me and I hope that my true identity revelation to me free. One thing sure, external influences can be beneficial but can be harmful and it is up to us to be aware of what surrounds us and accompanies us through life every day and still up to us to stick in your mind of things good that we encounter because if we let influenced by bad things that we see our lives can be affected in a negative way and will be pretty hard to go back on a healthy path in our lives