It's None Of Your Business What Anyone Thinks of You

“It’s none of your business what anyone thinks of you”, Love Who You are With Pride! A bold statement I know but a very true statement. A statement that I have begun to truly live my life by, because why would it be your business what anyone else thinks of you? We spend our whole lives worrying about what others think. It affects our whole reality from what we wear to what we say and even sometimes what we choose to do with our lives in regards to education or even employment. But doesn’t this sound CRAZY to you! Running your life on what others think. Isn’t it setting yourself up for failure or even more letting someone else dictate how your life is going to be or how you will feel about yourself? Crazy I Say! But yet I too have been guilty of this my whole life. I remember being a kid and going to school terrified of what others would think “Does my hair look right?”, “Am I wearing the right cloths?”, “Do I look Cool?” Hell Yah! I looked amazing, I felt amazing and I always woke up with a great big smile waiting to greet the world with my whole hearted approach to life, until…. Until I basically had the heart beaten out of me. There was someone always waiting to tell me how I looked like a geek or I acted like a faggot, or how I should have been a girl and as an innocent child, who just wanted to fit in or to be loved and see the good in everyone. I made it my business what others thought of me. I let it in, I let it destroy who I was, and I started trying to conform to what others wanted me to be and continued to do it on whatever level until recently and now that I think about it this was absolutely crazy. How could I possibly be what everyone else wanted me to be when each person had a different ideal of what that was? In reality it was only possible to be me! We all have a story, some extreme and some not so extreme but each and every one of us has been effected in some way or another by making it our business what others think of us. I am here to tell you that “It is none of your business what others think of you”. You are a unique beautiful being and everything that is you is amazing. Everything you are is perfect and everything you have to offer is a gift to the universe. Let’s bring our life’s focus back to being us. Let’s shine for who we truly are. You are God’s gift to the universe and after all God made everything perfect including you. So do yourself a favor today and start living life for you….keep shining and remember… “It’s none of your business what others think of you” Big Hug! Shayne