Did He Really Behave Himself At This Year's Christmas Party?

"Did He Really Behave Himself At This Year'sOffice Christmas Party? 6 Tips To Spot If YourMan Is A Saint Or A Sinner"nnAuthor and persuasion coach, Tony Walker has beenstriking fear into the hearts of liars and cheatsthis Christmas with the release of his "Human LieDetector" book entitled, Liar Liar Pants On Fire!nnWe are said to be lied to, on average, every ten minutes.nnFor most of us we even lie to our children. How many of uspretend Santa Claus is real in order to convince our kidsto behave themselves all year?nnSadly, one of the biggest reasons those close to us maylie is to conceal infidelity. And with the alcohol-fueled,mistletoe entangled festive season now rampant, there aremany more opportunities for the man in your life to strayfrom the path of fidelity than at any other time of year.nnOften, the lies that follow one drunken moment of stupiditycan be more damaging to a relationship than the act itself.nnJust as damaging though is constantly accusing someone ofsomething they didn't do.nnAs well as all the good stuff though, it's well known thatChristmas is also a time that sees more breakups, fightsand arguments than any other.nnSo, if you don't want to be left wondering this year, hereare 6 quick tips for calming your worries or confirmingyour suspicion.nn1. AVOID CONFRONTATIONnIf you suspect you are being lied to then should youconfront the liar immediately? I would generally suggest not. Often the best approach is to note the fact in your mind and continue with the conversation, with a view to extracting more information.nnThis will tend to confirm or deny your suspicions without causing an awkward scene if your hunch proves false. Once youconfront someone who has lied to you (or not) the tone of theconversation can change and gathering additional facts becomes almost impossible.nn2. LOOK THEM IN THE EYESnA person who is lying to you may do everything possible toavoid making eye contact. Others may make exaggerated and overprolonged eye contact in an effort to convince you of their sincerity.nn3. LITTLE MOVEMENTSnHands may go up to the face or throat, especially to themouth. But contact with the body is limited to these areas. The liar may also be unlikely to touch the chest with an open handgesture. The liar may also touch the nose or scratch behind the ear.If he is trying to appear casual and relaxed about hisanswer, he may shrug a little as he talks.nn4. TIMING nThe timing may seem off between gestures and words. If thefacial expression comes after the verbal statement ("I am soangry with you right now" ... pause ... and then the angry expression), it provides further evidence of potential deceit.nn5. EXPRESSIONSnIn some cases a liar's gesture or facial expression won'talways match their words. Examples such as frowning when saying "I love you" or tightly clenched fists while stating appreciation or pleasure spring to mind. nnExpression will also regularly be limited to the mouth area,rather than the whole face when the person is feigningcertain emotions - happiness, surprise, awe etc. nn6. POSTUREnThe liar may be reluctant to face the accuser and may turnthe head or shift the body away. If a lie has been committed theaccused will probably slouch; he is unlikely to stand tall with his arms out or outstretched.nnThere could also be movement away from the accuser,possibly in the direction of the nearest exit.nnAbove are just 5 possible giveways, even if someone isdisplaying all of them it doesn't necessarily mean they are lying. So before you think about flying off the handle think about this... In Liar Liar you'll discover...nn- 11 Non-verbal giveawaysn- 8 Common tricks used by liarsn- 16 General Indications Of Deceitn- An inside look at a liar's headn- 11 Non-confrontational n interrogation techniquesn- 4 tactics for gathering evidencen in every day conversationsnnYou can buy it at http://www.BookShaker.comnnSIDEBARn-----------------------nWe've got together with www.BookShaker.com to offerour readers a special 10% Christmas Discount onLiar Liar Pants On Fire! Details Below...nnENDSnnWORDCOUNT 656nnInformation For Editorsn--------------------------------------nnIf you'd like to run this feature we can provideyou with a special "password" that will giveyour readers a 10% discount when they buy the bookat www.BookShaker.comnnEmail us at: xmasliar@leanmarketingpress.comto get more details and to request a review copy.nnAuthor: Tony WalkernPublisher: Lean Marketing PressnPrice: £9.99nFormat: eBook (PDF)nURL: liarliar.leanmarketingpress.comnnBUY IT AT www.BookShaker.com