*** Mentors

The origin of the word is Greek mythology. When Odysseus left for the Trojan War he placed Mentor in charge of his son and palace.
Roll on to present day and mentors have been promoted from the babysitting and house-sitting to key advisory roles.

Why get a mentor?
Learn from someone who has been there and done it all before.
How to get a mentor?
Ask! When I was writing comedy I was mentored by an Emmy Award-winning director for Third Rock. He was gracious, helpful and motivating. Most people want to help - they get a kick out of it.

Overcoming Objectionsr
But they will be too busy. I won't be able to get hold of them. They won't want to waste time on me. True - maybe - or maybe not.

One-Off Mentoringr
If they are too busy - then ask for 10 minutes - period - one time only. Chances are they will accept that and if you don't scare them do it again.
Phone Mentoringr
Find the person and get a fax number and/or their assistant. Fax a request with a phone number.
Better still talk to your dog-groomer, aunt's best friend or first love and get a referral.

Keys to Successive Mentoring
Be businesslike - make an appointment with a start and end time and keep to it.
Be prepared - know what questions you want to ask ahead of time.
Be aware - know who you are talking to - research the mentor thoroughly.
Be real - sometimes the most helpful mentor is not the superstar but someone who is a couple of rungs on the ladder ahead of you. Treat them with respect but as someone just like you!