My Advice for Handling a Break Up With Your Ex Boyfriend If You Want Him Back

My Advice for Handling a Break Up With Your Ex Boyfriend If You Want Him Back

It kind of flies in the face of what you think should and would work if you want to get him back. Still a lot of people will recommend that you ignore your ex boyfriend after a break up if you want to be able to get him back. Is that really something that you should do? Does it always work to win him back? This article is going to answer those questions and give you some insights as to whether or not you should ignore your ex boyfriend after a break up, if you are hoping to be able to win him back.

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So, should you ignore him? Most of the time, and in most contexts, it actually IS a good thing to do if you want to get back together with him. I have to point out that it doesn't apply to literally all situations. I can think of several scenarios where totally and outright ignoring your ex boyfriend might actually be a bad thing to do.

For example, if you are sharing custody of a child and he asks questions related to the child, you really can't and should not ignore him. However, there are lots of situations where ignoring him a little bit or even most of the time does help out if you want to be able to win him back.

One of the worst things that you can do after breaking up with a guy you were dating is to end up coming across like you are desperate to get back together with him. Not only can that desperation become a complete turn off, but it can also open you up to a situation where he knows that he can play games with your heart and you'll put up with it because you want him back so much. Don't think he would ever do such a thing? You might be surprised.

When you ignore him, not only do you send the signal to him that he can't take you for granted and that he can't try to play games with you, you also are going to trigger his curiosity about you. He's going to wonder, what's going on? Why is she acting this way? Is there another guy? Does she not have any feelings at all for me?

This can be a good thing. Of course, you CAN go overboard with it. You can give off the impression that you truly want nothing to do with him and if he gets that impression and assumes that it would be too much "work" to try to patch things up with you, he might just go and look for a woman who isn't so hard to deal with.

So, it definitely CAN work to your benefit, but it isn't foolproof in any way. There are also those situations where you can't just outright ignore him completely. A good way to go about it is to lessen the amount of attention that you give to him. If you can go a period of time without having any contact at all, then that is usually a good thing to do. Just don't wait too long, because you might find that during that time - he found someone else and you are out of luck.

If you are struggling with trying to get him back for good, then you need to really know what works and what does not.

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