A lot of people wonder whether pickup lines can be useful when you
approach women, and if they really get you laid. Yet when we hear the phrase "pickup line," we tend to envision some sleazy guy wearing a gold chain across his hairy chest. As a Barry White song plays on the soundtrack, he lurks in the nightclub looking for his next conquest...
He approaches a woman...eyes her up and down, like a hungry predator eyeballing a slab of meat...and delivers a corny pick up line that causes her to roll her eyes (or throw her cocktail in his face).
I'm referring to pick up lines like these...
"I sure hope you know CPR, because you're taking my breath away."
"Can I borrow a quarter? [What for?] I want to call my mom and tell her I just met the woman of my dreams."
"Hey, can I borrow a map? I keep on getting lost in your eyes."
"Are you religious? Cause you are the answers to all my prayers."
"Sorry lady, but you owe me a drink. [Why?] Because when I looked at you, I dropped mine."
"Hello. Cupid called. He says to tell you that he needs my heart back."
"I play the field, and it looks like I just hit a home run with you."
"If I followed you home, would you keep me?"
"Is there an airport nearby or is that just my heart taking off?"
"I was so mesmerized by your beauty that I ran into that wall over there...I'm going to need your name and number for insurance purposes."
Now, not all pick up lines are THAT cheesy. Here are a few that women may actually find charming or flattering -- IF you follow them up correctly (which I'll explain how to do in a moment).
"Wouldn't we look cute on a wedding cake together?"
"Do you know karate? Because your body is really kickin'."
"What does it feel like to be the cutest girl in the room?"
"You must be a hell of a thief, because you stole my heart from across the room."
(Note: Don't use this pick up line on women who are extremely hot and KNOW it. This line is more effective when you approach women who appear to be a bit shy and don't have a stuck-up attitude.)
And then, there's another category of pick up lines some guys use when they approach women. I call these...
Pick Up Lines That Could Get You Slapped In The Face
You'll want to be extremely cautious when using the following lines when you approach women. A woman with a sense of humor might find them amusing, but you also run the risk of getting hit or having a martini tossed in your face. (Especially if her boyfriend the UFC fighter happens to be standing nearby.) Like I said, be careful...
"Do you know what has 142 teeth and holds back the Incredible Hulk? [What?] My zipper."
"That outfit would look great...in a crumpled heap next to my bed."
"Is that a keg in your pants? Because I'd love to tap that ass."
The Reality About Using Pick Up Lines To Approach Girls
So are pick up lines something to be ridiculed? Would any REAL pick up artist deign to use them? I have authored a few books on
picking up girls, and I've taught thousands of guys how to "break the ice" with women and seduce them with effective conversation. And personally, I think pick up lines are usually way too obvious.
I teach a style of approaching women that I refer to as "going under the radar". What this basically means is that you say (or ask) something clever when you approach women -- a comment or question that catches her by surprise and engages her attention, without signalling your sexual interest. These methods of approaching women feel more casual and natural to both you and her.
For instance, when you approach a woman you might ask for her opinion on an unexpected topic -- one that women are of course going to have strong feelings about.
Opener #1: "Hey, I have to get back to my friends but let me ask you something real quick -- would you freak out if your boyfriend was invited to a bachelor party and you knew there would be strippers at the party? My friend Samantha asked me for my opinion."
Opener #2: "Hey, help me settle a debate I'm having with my friends. How long do you need to be dating someone before you change your status on Facebook from "single" to "in a relationship?" Because my friend Jennifer has been going out with a guy for a month and SHE thinks it's an exclusive thing, but he hasn't changed his "single" status and she's wondering if she should say something..."
These methods of approaching women are especially effective because they're based on what I call "relationship grey areas." Men and women tend to have their own ideas about what's allowed in a relationship, and what is unacceptable. Another example: is it "cheating" if a guy hangs out with his ex-girlfriend socially, without telling his current girlfriend?
When you approach a woman, your goal with the opening line is to get a positive response that makes her want to talk to you further. And if you're a confident, playful guy, this one always gets a fun reaction:
"Do I look gay? Because this dude was TOTALLY flirting with me in the bathroom a minute ago. Be honest, is it my shirt?" (Or, "is it the way my ass looks in these jeans?")
Those don't count as "pick up lines," really. But I'm not saying you should NEVER use a corny pick up line when you are approaching women.
In some situations, I actually opened the conversation by using one of those cheesy pick up lines -- and because I was able to transition into a fun conversation, I was able to get the girl into bed that night!
I showed a sense of humor by "confessing" that I had used a corny line to try to pick her up. After I said it, I followed up with "I know that TOTALLY sounded like a pick up line...but I want to talk to you for a minute and I couldn't think of what else to say. My name's Dean..."
At that point, I used my usual methods -- I asked a few "strategic" questions to get her in a fun mindset, and sharing information about herself...I used techniques like "Cold Reads" and "Hypotheticals"... and throughout the conversation, I managed the flow and hit the right buttons to make her feel curiosity and attraction.Sometimes the world's cheesiest pick up line can be a FUN way to start things off. The trick is knowing how to follow it up with something original that makes her want to talk to you.
And hey, this one has worked for me several times...
"You're so beautiful that you made me forget my pickup line."
You can't put a price tag on a line like that!
But before I reveal how to CLOSE THE DEAL with women, please heed this warning...
The tactics you will learn in our FREE manual for approaching women will affect females on a subconscious level and trigger their deepest desires. Please try to use this material responsibly, because it's really powerful. These are quite simply the most powerful tactics if you want to go beyond funny pick up lines, and seduce women with confidence and skill.
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