For the first time in my life, I find myself surrounded by examples of people in great partnership relationships, usually in the form of lasting marriages. Take Don and Barbara. I think they have been together for sixty+ years. I hadn't see
Barbara prior to her quite extensive hospital visit that began in late December! I eventually made sure to bring over some flowers and spend some quality time with little old Barbara. Barbara and Don are models for Robert and I. Their partnership is a perfect example of a stable, deep, abiding love. Following my visit with her I was deeply moved by the stability of their relationship. They have 6 adult children and are developing the great-grandchildren generation of life. Don loves Barbara with unfailing faith that her well-being will come back.
Seeing this type of connection transcends explanation, truly. The environment was full of knowing and enduring. Words fail me as I attempt to explain the union.
Then there's my in-laws. Another example of two lovers who've been through a life full of good times and bad. There's a stability and lasting effect that is so grounding and gives comfort. They have made children who have visions of partnerships based on communication, mutual respect, laughing, and love. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for
Relationships Attraction, and it's not hard to grasp.
By contrast, there are households under which a lot people have been raised where strife, arguing, and anxiety were a commonplace. Strangely, in either case, there is no "guarantee" that we'll model our Mom and Dad. Failed marriages and relationships still occur when the parents' relationship was stable and grounded in love, mutual values, and respect.
Could It Be A Magic Formula?
So what's going on here? These people seem to have a magic formula down pact. Was it always easy? I don't think so. But, these people continuously sustained their will to create and re-create possibility in their relationships. I am sure life wasn't all sweet and wonderful for them. However, they went back to the meaning of who they are in their relationship with one another. You can attract your own
Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of creative potential!
So how come it is different for a lot of us? Everyone came into this world desiring some of this and a little bit of that. To mix it up. Granted, we tend to be awakening into a higher reality where we can choose more of what we really want, instead of functioning on creation-by-default mode. We've learned to use contrasting circumstances as a point of distinguishing; using the contrast of a bad partnership to better define what we desire in a relationship that works; one that's is filled with love and clear communication.
Of course the contrast is helpful information. But what if you've had just about as much contrast as you can handle and you do not know what to do next? If you have read "Create the Love of Your Dreams" or you've been studying any of the Law of Attraction teachers, they all say, keep your nose directed in the direction of what it feels like to already have what it is you want. If you need the help of a
Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Using an independent listener to check in with can help you move off old patterns much faster.
I will grant you that in a lot of scenarios it seems easier said than done. That's where having a practice and an accountability comes into play. Why go through life feeling at the effect of it instead of at the creation of it? Find a group, or a friend and start co-creating some juicy relationship affirmations and keep each other to your words and actions.
There is always personal coaching. It isn't like therapy that some people continue for years and years. Coaching is designed to give you the power to to realize where you need to change your vibration and get the most out of your own personal inner mechanisms so you can start to manifest the life of your dreams.
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