rules to be happy

The Rules For Being Happy rnDo you ever think about why... "Life Has To Be This Way" We create the rules for our lives and then we want tornbelieve those rules are written in stone. "You can never be happy." Now there's a common rule. Many people have a rule that saysrnthey can never be happy. I know I used to. Oh, I never thought about it much. I just lived it. Ifrnyou'd asked me if it was okay to be happy, I'd sayrn"sure, of course happiness is a good thing". And I never would have looked at the fact I had a rule thatrnsaid I could never be happy. I didn't think about it - orrnfeel the feelings - created by that rule. Therefore, I had to live it out. I lived a life where I wasrnnever happy. What is your rule about happiness? Are you allowed to bernhappy? If so, how much? You DO have a rule which spells out exactly how muchrnhappiness you're allowed to have. And it has to be thatrnway. That's the rule. But who wrote the rule? Who makes the rules about how yourrnlife has to be? Your mother? Your father? Your grade schoolrnteacher? Your ex-spouse? Or are you 'channeling' the words of your grandmother?rnThe acorn doesn't fall far from the tree. It's usually notrntoo hard to track down the origins of your rules. Maybe you've adopted the exact same rules of your parents. Or maybe you 'pushed off' your parents - by adopting thernexact opposite of their rules. Of course, many rules you came up with by yourself. Butrnusually they're just extrapolations from your parents' rules. You took the rules they gave you and adapted them to yourrnpresent situation. Do you really want the same rules as your parents? You don't have to be a little robot following along inrnyour parents footsteps. You might not have been able to help yourself when you werernmaking your rules. But what about today? You're grown up. And you're a unique creature with a soulrnthat's desperately trying to get through to you right now. You have a soul that loves you. You have a soul who thinksrnabout you and wants to help you. You have a soul who already knows the answer to everyrnquestion you could possibly ask. A soul who holds thernsolution and resolution to every problem you will everrnexperience. You might want to stop reading for a second and let that in. You have a soul. It knows more than you and it wants to help you. How doesrnthat feel? Now, what about the rule that says you can't be happy?rnYour soul will help you if you let it. You can rewrite that rule with your soul looking over yourrnshoulder. (Instead of your mother standing over you!) You can invite your soul into your life. Ask it to be morernpresent. Ask it to help you. It's got the muscle. It's got the willingness. The questionrnis, do you have what it takes to ASK? - Life can be any way you want it to. - It will be the way your rules say it will be. - You can change your rules to anything you want. - Your soul can help. - You need to ask for help, then be willing to receive. Is this 'The Answer' to emotional problems? No, but it'srnone piece of the puzzle. "Allowing the help from one who is 'more' than you." In the program on "How To Create Your Own Reality" I talkrnabout just what your rules are; how to find them and howrnto change them. http://esteemself.co.cc I don't mention your soul anywhere in the e-book; I justrnthought it would be a good idea to bring it up here. You've got allies. Why not use them? all the best, Mark Mark Ivar MyhrernThe Emotional Healing Wizard PS - While I don't write about your soul in the e-book onrn"How To Create Your Own Reality", I do talk about thernsecret to greater happiness. You might be surprised justrnhow simple it is. Go to - http://esteemself.co.cc