Separation Anxiety in Dogs

Dogs, especially puppies, live in the moment and for some that moment evaporates when they see you leaving. Suddenly, they are overcome with a fear of you walking away. I have noticed that my puppy is not so worried about being left alone, but angry that I am leaving him back.

The solution to this is:

1) Preparation before you leave to allow your puppy/dog to get used to the fact that you are leaving.

2) Lots of chewy toys (make sure they are safe) like kongs, or raw hide bones.

3) Regular schedule when you leave your dog each day for a short time and make it a routine event.

4) Perform a consistent set of actions before you leave by picking up your keys, or saying bye or leaving a special treat before you leave.

4) Don't return each minute to see if your dog is doing okay, even if he/she is barking. Your returning back is a reward for the barking and now your dog knows what has got you back and will do it more.

Give it at least 10 days to a week for your dog to get used to this ritual of leaving without him and soon a small treat and a firm and happy "bye" is all it will take.

Dogs sense nervousness and tension in your voice and if you sound hesitant or nervous about leaving your dog will not settle down. Use a loud and happy tone when you say bye.

When you return home, don't encourage your dog to get into a frenzy. Excitement is good but the energy should be channeled into an interactive game or training lessons rather than frenzied bouncing, ripping apart things or chewing.

I usually pet my dog, let him out to do his business and then go to the "treat" drawer and make sure my dog is sitting and calm before I treat him and let the games begin.