Spirit Speaks - Forgiveness And Love Part 3

When you hold a grievance against anyone, in effect you hold it against yourself. They become your mirror. When you see them, what you’re really seeing is yourself, and the judgment that you think you have against them, is really one that you have against yourself.

Whoa, say what?

Yes, it’s true.
You see, when we hold judgments against ourselves they can be too painful to really see, and there can be many layers of “stuff” held on top of that original judgment, so we no longer see ourselves as having that “flaw,” but it’s there and you’re seeing it in the face you look at when you see that other person. You may see that person as a persecutor, but what you’re really seeing is a part of yourself that you hold out – consciously or not – to be the same, and it’s a part of yourself that has yet to be forgiven.

That other person may present as your opposite rather than an exact mirror, but it’s still a judgment against yourself. For example, you might see her as your persecutor, but when you hold her in that light, you, by default, become the victim. You, literally, are holding an energetic claim over that person’s head to be your persecutor, and you hold one over your own to be the victim. Not much fun, right?!

So, what to do?

There are three steps. They aren’t always easy, but they work. If you really want to be free, then give them a chance. Remember, this isn’t about calling this person up and saying, “It’s ok, I forgive you.” Not at all. You may or may not ever speak to that persona again, and you may never agree with what they did. This is about freeing yourself from all that you’ve been holding inside. The more emotional you are about it, the more it gnaws at your gut, the more there is to let go. I’ve witnessed this process over and over, and have distilled it into 4 steps. I’ll post these one at a time to give you time to process and digest and process each. [To be continued.]

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