Step 4. - Offer Love

If you’ve come this far, and it’s a long way from where you started, spiritually, then you might as well join me for this step, because it’s a powerful one. It erases the hurt that you held in the first place and will offer you a profound healing in your heart of hearts. You will not be the same after this simple exercise. This is it: offer love to the person who wronged you.

Imagine it. Literally! Like energy waves flowing from your heart to the person who you hurt or wronged you. Not forgiveness, but love.

Why?

Because love will heal the wound in them, too, and it heals the space between you. It offers the recognition on a very deep spiritual level that you and he are both players in this game of life, and that in Truth there can be no wrong, but simply forgetfulness. You have forgotten that you and he are, in Spirit, One and the same, and to send this person love is to send it to your heart as well. You cannot give that which you do not have, and when you offer love, you have it for yourself, too. Love heals all wounds. It heals the wounds of you as victim, and it heals the wounds of you as perpetrator. It heals on conscious levels, and it heals to the layers that are carried so deeply that all you see or feel is the remnants that have risen to the surface. Love heals.

Be willing to offer love, even if it feels off, awkward or unreal. It’s kind of like fake it until you make it, but I’d say it this way – it won’t feel real until it feels real, and then you’ll know why you’ve done any of this in the first place. You don’t have to offer any of this aloud, in writing or in person. In fact, it’s more powerful when done through the ethers and not in a conscious, physical way. Making it a personal interaction can so easily bring up the wound or the other person’s ego. Remember, this exercise is for you, to free you, and if the other person benefits, then there’s even more love to go around. They may, and they may not. They, too, must be willing on an inner level to receive the love and to forgive, so be careful not to make this an outward exercise or one where you have expectations. At the same time, I can say that this has worked perfectly every time I entered into the exercise, and that it’s the most powerful when you take time to do all the steps. It’s worth it. You’ll see yourself blossom and a lightening up in the interactions with the people with whom you’ve been living the stories that ego created – your and theirs. And you will have known, after the fact, just how powerful a Creator you are. So why not choose to create peace and release all that does not exist within you in Love?
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