The Amazing Power of Non-Negotiables
So I made a mistake.
It seemed like a good idea at the time...
I decided to “Change things up” at the Love Post.
Several months ago, I thought re-focusing on creating other content would provide more value to you, my reader.
And I’m working on some exciting stuff that I’ll be sharing with you soon...
What I’ve now discovered, though, is that I lost momentum by letting The Love Post schedule slide.
And I left you without the consistent positive encouragement that you’ve come to expect from The Love Post.
I’m sorry.
And I’m fixing it. Right now.
Back on Track
The lesso
I learned from this experience is that non-negotiables have amazing power.
When I set my mind to a twice a week schedule, there was no stopping me.
It was a given. Whether I was feeling it or not, it didn’t matter.
Even if bedtime ran late and I was tired, it was Love Post day, so I was writing.
Whether it turned out to be a really fantastic post, or just some thoughts on the page, I delivered.
And it was thanks to a simple, non-negotiable schedule that I created for myself.
Kind of incredible, huh?
I know that looking back, I feel very glad that I did make up that “imaginary” requirement.
That’s really all it was...
It was my self-determined condition that had to be met.
And you know what? I met it.
Simply because I made a decision. And I committed to it.
I didn’t leave room for excuses.
It was only when I let myself find a reason to back out of my obligation that things went “wrong”.
And instead of producing more, I let myself slide down a slippery slope of non-production...
Because I didn’t enstate a new more rigorous schedule for creating value.
Your Take Away
First of all, I hope you can forgive me!
Please know that I’m truly dedicated to helping you create a life that you absolutely Love!
And I want you to learn from this too! (No need to make my mistake ~ I already made it for you!)
What do you need or want to be doing that keeps getting put off to a later date?
Probably because it hasn’t actually made it’s way onto the calendar, right?
Whatever it is, go ahead and decide when it’s going to happen.
Just decide.
Write it in your planner.
Here are a few ideas to get you thinking of the possibilities:
⥠Tuesday night meditation.
⥠Daily morning workout 3 minutes (This will change your whole life!)
⥠Sunday afte
oon reading session.
Once it’s a non-negotiable, you save a ton of energy resisting or procrastinating.
You just do it. It’s like magic!
So, I’m back on track and I hope you’ll join me in choosing some non-negotiables that make this your best year yet!
Love & Gratitude ~ Mary Anne
Article author
About the Author
Meet Mary Anne... She's always Loved Love.
She's a practicing student of Love and has taught the subject in her books and on her blog, "The Love Post" since 2014.
Now that she's a wife and mother of two beautiful little ladies, she's more determined than ever to teach others how to use Love to transform their lives and have a positive impact in the world we all share.
Mary Anne offers her knowledge and wisdom in a practical, easy to understand way so that you can start improving your life immediately, with Love as your guide.
You can read more of Mary Anne's writing at https://maryannehorsman.com
Further reading
Further Reading
Article
Inside the Mind of the Worldâs Most Watched Gold Strategist: Alex Chiniborch
Today, dating is no longer only about meeting partners on Tinder or going to awkward dates.rnThe dating world is evolving, and AI dating sims are leading the evolution.rnAI dating sims, like Chatalystarâs AI dating sim, provide emotional support of having a partnerrnwithout going through the stress of physically approaching a potential partner and convincingrnthem to be your dating partner. With AI dating simulators, you can personalize your virtualrncompanion for romance,
March 9, 2026
Article
How AI and Citizen Science Are Revolutionizing Biodiversity Mapping
Science is, at its core, a processâa framework for testing questions about the world with detailed and structured observations of it to gain knowledge and understanding. Contrary to what some may believe, the scientific process has always been a universal one, accessible to the common people, even if the largest and most newsworthy discoveries are usually left to those with greater time and resources. However, with modern technologies like AI, that reality is primed for rad
February 3, 2026
Article
Effective Coaching for Par Couples Transforms Your Relationship
Find joy As a couples coach, I often encounter couples who are trapped in unhelpful communication and behavior patterns. rnThey deeply long for change but lack the concrete tools and insight needed to break the negative spiral. rnMy experience shows that even the most ingrained problems can be solved when the couple is motivated and willing to learn new strategies. A Silent Crisis and the Path to Change Ann and John, both in their mid-forties, came to me because they felt the
August 9, 2025
Article
How to Say Love in Threesome?
I love you do you say this? It is difficult for many of us in love to say this. Yesterday I read a girl's post on a forum and said her boyfriend was waiting for her to say I love you, and she was waiting for him to say-I love you. What do you ask threesome appears? How to do it? Say I love you in an e-card to avoid hesitation and embarrassment. It takes courage to say that this is the first time I've been looking for a threesome dating, because the reaction has never been kno
August 29, 2024