Attracting and approaching women is a tough thing to do. It requires confidence, and the ability to be a smooth talker, to approach women, engage them in a friendly, interesting conversation, and get their phone number. If the thought of randomly
approaching women and striking up conversations makes you feel anxious, I understand that this process can be hard at first, and I've been there myself.
But the bottom line is, you've got to learn how to approach women if you're going to expand your social life and elevate your dating life. Approaching women is something that most men are afraid of. . If this is how you feel, then you should change your ways so that you can start having the success that you desire.
One thing that you can do to help out with approaching women is practice in the mirror. Talking to yourself in the mirror will allow you to see how you look and to build up the confidence you need to approach someone. If you can first be comfortable with yourself, then you will more than likely be comfortable with talking with a woman too.
I'm sure you've heard of men approaching women and seducing them instantly. I don't recommend trying this as this is the fastest way to get a drink thrown into your face. But when you do approach a woman, you need to have no fear of rejection. Not being intimated of rejection is a skill that you need to develop, and you can begin by walking up to women and asking them a simple question.
For instance, you should practice walking up to women and asking them a genuine question. Your question could be if they know what time it is or if they know where the nearest McDonalds is. This will help you to get into the habit of naturally approaching women so when the time comes to ask a woman for her phone number, it won't be as hard to do.
If you can learn how not to be afraid of rejection, then you increase your chances of having success with women by a long shot. When practicing what I suggested above, you should only practice walking up to beautiful women. Ask a woman where the nearest bank is or where the nearest grocery store is. You'd be amazed at the responses and some of these women will even start up conversations with you!
Techniques on How to Approach a Girl You Like
Do you want to
know how to approach a girl you like without being paralyzed with fear? For men who do not have a lot of experience when it comes to women, things can be a tad difficult but once you understand everything it becomes easier thereafter. These tactics I am about to share with you have their underpinnings on the psychology of women.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #1: Establish Social Value
Contrary to popular belief, you don’t directly approach a girl you like and introduce yourself just like that. You must first create massive amounts of attraction and the only way to do this is for you to display your personality, charisma and social skills in general. In short, you have to show women characteristics of men that they find attractive. For example, see to it that your people are enjoying your presence; converse with some of the bartenders, waiters and waitresses you know; approach and talk to other friends you know in the room.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #2: Don’t Sound and Appear Too Interested
Women are not attracted to men who shower them with too much attention and attraction. This is the reason why players get laid easily than nice guys. I’m not saying that you have to a jerk. Just give her an impression that you want to chat with her but if she's not digging it, you're cool with it. As long as you've done tip #1 well, she knows that if she rejects you, it's going to be her loss. There are a lot of other girls who would be more than willing to give you their attention. You become the prize to be had.
One way of doing this is by stating beforehand that you’re not going to take too much of her time. Here's an example:
"Hey, I see you guys are having fun but this is not going to take long. I saw you from across the room and I think you look awesome in that dress. So I thought I'd say Hi".
She may smile or say thank you, either way you have to stay true to your words and leave afterwhich.
How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #3: The Neutral and Flirt Openers
So now let me give you some specific examples of how to open conversations with women.
Neutral openers are the opposite of flirt openers. With neutral openers, you have to make an observation about the girl and make statements or questions related to what you've observed.
Neutral openers give you the chance to show the girl that you don’t only appreciate her but you are also interested in what she has to say about certain things. The objective is for you to open up a conversation focused on her interests and make her talk. Women like it when they meet a guy who doesn’t see them as someone he can have a one night stand with. There's nothing wrong if this is your goal but don't make it too obvious. Otherwise, she'll just ignore you just like that. If you want to call these rituals it's okay but the truth is women warm up to these strategies easily.
On the other hand, flirt openers must be used once you're sure of your game. If the girl is head over heels for you, you won't have a problem using flirt openers. If in case you're starting to get a lot of positive results everytime you use flirt openers, congratulations, it may mean you're already an expert when it comes to macking.