The Best Boyfriend Dumped Me - What Do I Do Now to Survive The Breakup?

You met Mr. Wonderful and life was good. Now, "the world's best boyfriend dumped me!" Where do you go from here?

Life can be so kind and then turn around and be so cruel. Fate is such a fickle thing and talk of destiny and forever, crossing your fingers, and hoping for the best will only get you so far. There will come a point in every relationship where it's time to get busy making it right or get ready to move on. When that point comes for Mr. Wonderful and he decides to move on you have three options at your disposal.

Get over Mr. Wonderful

This is often the healthiest but also the most difficult for many women who were caught completely off guard when Mr. Wonderful turned out to be a toad like the rest of them. But, if you are able to move on after you've been dumped you can qualify for membership in the "Best Boyfriend Dumped Me and all I got was this Crummy Tee Shirt" club. Maybe not but starting your own club might be a great way to get over Mr. Wonderful once he's left you high and dry.

Get Even with Mr. Wonderful

Revenge is a dish that many women turn to. While it's not always wrong it isn't always right either. You will have to make that decision for yourself. Just remember that revenge is a dish that's really best served cold. This gives you time to think about the best course of action, plan it, and carry it off without a hitch. More importantly it isn't done in the heat of the moment so you can be much more devious in your planning.

Get Mr. Wonderful Back

This is a favorite for all hopeless romantics. There are plenty of them among us. Getting Mr. Wonderful to fall hopelessly back in love with you is an excellent plan. It will require a little work, time, and effort on your part but can be done in most situations. Don't rush this process though or it can backfire on you. Take your time to come up with a lasting plan that will have him eating out of your hands and falling back into your arms before he knows what hit him.

These three things seem so simple but each presents its own set of pros and cons. Sleep on your options before you make any lasting decisions. You just might find that the morning brings new opportunities for the future.