The Best Way To Approach Hot Girls At Bars And Clubs

Bars are some of the best environments to pick up women. Picking up girls in bars can be fun and easy if you know how to approach women to the right way. Keep in mind that hot girls get approached by men constantly at bars, so you've got to make an original approach that distinguishes you from all the others. (My book "Mack Tactics" contains an entire chapter on approach tactics, and gives you clever & wickedly effective openers to use in virtually any situation.).rnvrnSo right now, let me share with you some general tips to help you pick up girls in bars, clubs and other nightlife environments: 1. Before leaving your house, you need to make sure that you look great. You certainly don't need to be tall and well-built to attract women, but you absolutely must be clean, well-dressed and most importantly well-groomed. First impressions are important, after all. If you haven't updated your wardrobe in a long time, go to the mall and have one of the cute salesgirls help you pick out some new threads. Then, go to a proper hair salon (not a cheap barber shop) and get your hair styled. Make sure that you wear good cologne and not the cheap kind if you want to pick up girls at bars. 2. You need to act confident if you want to be noticed. If you are naturally a shy, nervous guy, you'll need to fake this confidence until you start achieving some success (which is how you develop REAL confidence with women). Body language is extremely important; don't slouch, and keep your head held high. Make eye contact with women. Don't only try to interact with the hot girls you want to hook up with; start friendly interactions with other women as you "warm up" and get a feel for the crowd. Also keep in mind that most of the other guys in the bar are just as nervous as you -- if not more so -- when it comes to approaching girls and trying to start a conversation. Those who at least try to fake their confidence will be able to pick up girls at bars better than those who let their nervousness get the best of them. 3. You're going to have to learn how to approach women if you're going to successfully pick up girls when you go out. If you're a good-looking guy you may occasionally GET approached by women, but in most cases it's up to you to make the first move. Women usually go to bars with their friends, so don't be intimidated about approaching a group of women and engaging them in a conversation. If she's alone, go up to her, smile, and use one of the openers I explain the "Mack Tactics" book. If she (or the group) is not receptive, don't try to force it. Just move on to another prospect. Don't worry about being turned down. This is an important attitude to take when you're out to pick up girls at bars. And when approaching girls who are in a group, be equally charming to all of them. Even if there's only one you're interested in, you should still be nice to her friends. 4. My next piece of advice: stay positive during the conversation. She should associate you with FUN and POSITIVITY, not negativity or boring/depressing topics (such as talking to her about your exes, breakups, etc. She didn't spend all that time tonight perfecting her hair and makeup, and trying on five different outfits, so that she could come out tonight and talk about boring, depressing stuff. She's here to have fun! You simply need to be the guy who provides FUN in order to make her want to be with you. 5. Never be loud, aggressive or hostile towards other guys when you're out to pick up girls. It's cool to enjoy yourself and be energetic, but don't be the "spaz" who gets on people's nerves (or even worse, the drunk guy who can't handle his alcohol). I know that for a lot of guys, imbibing some "liquid courage" helps them to loosen up and feel more comfortable when picking up women. But when it comes to picking up girls in bars, you shouldn't let yourself become too drunk. 6. Observe and pay attention to the environment at all times. Make it a habit to watch how girls behave in bars -- when they're socializing with their friends, and when they get approached by random men. In order to pick up girls at bars, you should observe them for a few minutes before approaching them. If you can hear what she's talking about (with her friends, or with the guy who approached her), you may hear something that you can bring up during your own conversation with her. It's better to plan your moves carefully before approaching a woman than to go right up to her as soon as you see her. Becoming a master at picking up girls requires patience, discipline, and most of all PRACTICE. These were a few basic rules about how to pick up girls. If you want to learn a ton of great FREE openers to use on women, download the free Mack Tactics guide by clicking here: How To Approach Beautiful Girls - Mack Tactics Free Book