The Darkness Is Not Allowed To Take You Over! You Are Born To WIN!
I am obsessed with more, you know?
More impact, more income, more connection to Spirit, more awesome sex, more wisdom, more understanding of human nature, more Knowledge, more overall success, more closeness with my hubby and children, more, more, MORE!!
I literally want it all!
I almost feel a little apologetic about saying that out loud because some person, somewhere, once upon a time, told me that I was too much and I can still hear that in my head at times…
But I don’t hold back any longer, I want more!
I am obsessed, literally, with going after everything…
With stripping away anything, anyone that seeks to hold me back…
And it may not seem all that spiritual to be like this, to some…
(They are usually broke, of course…
Living ok lives but not fulfilling their potential)
And yet, my obsession comes from my desire to be like God, to fully know Him, to see what He sees, to know what He knows…
To expand and grow and live into my full purpose!
You want that too…
You may not go as far as saying you are obsessed because you are still trying to please a few people in your life…
But your mind is always there…
Wanting to find that awesome relationship that makes you come alive…
Wanting connection with Source that makes you feel loved…
Wanting that business that chu s out money and helps you reach more people…
Wanting to share your message with the world…
Wanting to be noticed, heard…
You want so much too!
So much more than you are getting, don’t you?
And you are obsessed with it though you may still try to pretend you are not.
But sometimes, the darkness comes…
And it makes you think you need to reduce your desires…
It makes you think you want too much…
It makes you slow down, play small, disappear!
Because everything you want seems so far away… at the moment!
And you think it makes you selfish to want it and you tell yourself you can live with less and you try to logicalize an illogical obsession…
Instead of listening into Spirit and hearing the applause and affirmation for your big ideas…
You tell yourself that it must be wrong and you hold back from even receiving wisdom and love because you feel you have been too self-centred and maybe, Spirit wants nothing to do with you anymore! As if that were even possible!
Honey, it is just the darkness talking!
Your vision has always been your permission to go after everything you desire…
You don’t dream it, if you are unable to make it happen, honey!
Surely you know that by now!
You have those big amazing ideas because you are EXACTLY the person to make it happen!
But I get it, you have spent years downplaying, listening to the norms around you who tell you to be satisfied with almost nothing and you took on that weird limited thinking because it was the norm…
And so now, as things do not pan out as fast as you would like, you think it is a flaw in you to want more, so much more!
And NO, LEADER, you cannot allow the darkness to win!
I don’t care what happened to you once upon a time…
I don’t care what someone said about you, once upon a time…
I don’t care how influential that spiritual leader was that tried to make you play small…
THE DARKNESS IS NOT ALLOWED TO WIN!
You want more and you can have more, so much more than this…
But only if you will put your hand to the plough and refuse to stop until you reach your next level and then the next and then the next and yes, it can also feel like a relentless pressure to keep pushing all the time but what is the alte ative?
A life of nothing?
A life of dissatisfaction?
A life of waiting for someone else to be in control of your life?
A life of complaining that they are not doing what you would do?
Well, honey, you don’t get to complain because you chose to give up your obsession whereas they went with it and they got up there and became the leader that you KNOW you are here to be!
The darkness can seem so real when you are in the midst of it…
And yet, you have the magic weapon to defeat it…
YOUR OBSESSION!
My obsession gets me out of bed between 4 and 5 each morning…
My obsession causes me to connect with Spirit every morning to hear His ideas for the day…
My obsession causes me to show up and call you out every day…
My obsession causes me to spend time with my family…
My obsession helps me defeat the darkness…
My obsession makes me pay coaches a great deal of money to kick my awesome arse into shape…
My obsession makes me continually come with ideas to reach and serve my people…
My obsession makes me continually push through, even when I feel a little deluded because I KNOW that clarity is never going to be found by sitting on my awesome arse! It will only be found as I push through and stay on my narrow path…
Yes, I am obsessed and I own it!
Will you own your obsession so that we can be the spirit-driven leaders who actually change the world?
Fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live…
Because you want to!
PS - Feeling stuck? Spinning wheels, getting nowhere fast? Fed up with feeling like the odd one out? Fed up with living with less than you are here to create? Fed up with the past still affecting your present?
Fed up with just not meeting your own expectations of yourself in any area of your life - Your relationships, health, finances, business/career?
Ready for that to change?
Private message me now to request a free ‘life upgrade’ consultation in which you will get clear on what you want, what is getting in the way and a next step plan.
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