The Greek language had three words for “Love” First there was "eros," from which we get "erotic." This was, of course a purely selfish love. Then there was "Phileo" (Philadelphia), or "brotherly love" This is the love of one family member for another. But the Bible added a new one--"agape" "Agape" is a giving love, entirely unselfish. nPerhaps one illustration and application, though still somewhat poor in comparison to God’s love would be by way of a quote from Mary Ellen Grisham, publisher of "Eternal Link:"n After counseling young couples for years, a minister I know suggested that "love is what you do." …Even with a basis of sincere love, rushed schedules and economic necessities dimmed the glamour of marriage. With the advice that "love is what you do," the[y] could concentrate less on romantic feelings and more on positive doing--showing their love in practical and effective ways. The active elements of good will and faith helped the marriages to retain the "zip and spice" of a well-balanced interaction in the homes…n That selfless love called agape that causes each of us to focus on the needs of others with no thought of return for ourselves is a high ideal of Christian love. While it takes all kinds of love and loving to make a good home and marriage, the common element of "what you do" runs through all the forms that love takes. From romantic love to brotherly and family love, the outer evidence shows in "what you do."n This last Greek word, agape, is the word used only to describe the love God has for us. As the song' "The Love of God" says:nWere with ink the oceans filled nAnd were the skies of parchment madenAnd every blade of grass a quillnAnd every man a scribe by tradenTo write the lovenof God abovenWould drain the ocean drynNor could the scroll contain the wholenThough stretched from sky to sky.n We are of great value both because of our creation and also because of the price paid for our redemption. There is an old story which illustrates this perfectly. A Young boy made a beautiful toy sailboat and took it to a lake to sail, but a gust of wind blew the boat out into the lake. The boat was lost. Several weeks later, the boy saw his sailboat in the window of a toy store. When he asked for his boat, the store owner said, "I own the sailboat now. If you want it you will have to buy it back."nThe boy sold all he had to buy back his boat. After paying the store owner, the boy took his boat to his heart and said, "Little boat, you are twice mine, I made you, and now I brought you." Like that little boat, we are twice the Lord's - He made us, and Christ bought us back by paying the price for our sin with his own blood. It is the desire of my heart that you would know how great God's love is for you, and that you would receive His unspeakable gift by asking Him to be your Savior and Lord.nThe Bible says in Romans 5:8 that "God commended His love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us." And in John 3:16, Jesus says "for God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whoever believes on Him might not perish but have everlasting life." That's life which begins here and now, and is also what He referred to in the 10th chapter of John as "life more abundant." Once we accept God’s great gift of salvation through His Son, He accepts us and we become His dear children (John 1:12). That should do something for the old self image. Think of it--to be a son of the Most High God. And this is where the road to real success begins. (To find out more, write me at:
inspirasucestips@bellsouth.net with the word "life" in the subject.). nI John 3:2 says, "Beloved now are we the Sons of God, and it does not yet appear what we shall be." Paul tells us that we are predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son. (Rom.8:29). That's a process which happens in the spiritual realm no matter we do and whether we're aware of it or not. You may say "I don't feel like a son of God." That doesn't change the fact that you are one. Then there's the matter of the Spiritual gifts God endows us with. In Rom.12:3, when Paul wrote that we should not think too highly of ourselves, I believe he may also have had in mind the opposite--thinking too lowly. His answer is to "think soberly according as God has dealt to every man the measure of faith." n So how can we bring our self image in line with the Word of God? I offer the following 5 steps: 1) Understand the source of your self-image n The image you have today exists because of the experiences of the past and not necessarily from God. The experiences of the past have not made you the way you are, but have made you believe you are the way you are, and it is the believing that made you indeed the way you are. (By 14 years old most of us have a well developed sense of inferiority.) But, once we identify the source we need not dwell on it. Part of Paul's goal in Philippians 3:13 was "forgetting those things which are behind." 2) Believe your self image can and will be changed. You are not locked in. In fact, God is at work in you every day to make you into the image of His dear Son (Phil.1:6; Romans 8:29) That's a process which will happen no matter we do. But we can hasten it by co-operating with God. 3)Search the scriptures to find out what God says about you, now that you are his son. 4)Allow the Word of God to change you (James 1:25 IICor.3:18). As you read it and meditate upon it daily, picture yourself fulfilling it's requirements and pray it back to God in positive statements. 5)Be patient with yourself. (You did not become like you are overnight.) If you fail, confess it (I John 1:9) and try again.n