The intricacies of winning and getting your ex back

It is quite unfortunate that even the best of our relationships turn sour sometime due to reasons known or seen or vice versa. There is a myriad of reasons as to why good and sound relationships go bad leading to breakups. You might have braved petty arguments or your ex simply halted all communication with you then pulled away, and you were left in the dark regarding what was happening. If you are hurting as well as unsure of where your partner is at in the relationship, you will most likely end up doing things that are the exact opposite of what you are supposed to be doing to get your ex back. This is because women, unlike men who tend to take the seemingly logical option, tend to opt for tactics that they would like to see.

Men and women have stark differences when it comes to how they think. Applying feminine logic in your attempts to get your ex back could be as futile as trying to win back a female by using male logic. The unfortunate part is that despite having the best of intentions to salvage a situation such as a breakup, a woman will end up doing things that will actually push away or turn off the person she really wants to bring back into her life without even being aware she’s doing it. If you are in such a situation you should ask yourself whether whatever you are doing in order to get back your ex will work for you or whether it will end up driving away your ex further from you thus resulting in you feeling worse than you are already.

Men and women are set apart by the vital hormonal and biological differences other than the other obvious physical ones. Most men, in order to reduce their stress levels, will resort to seeking ways that will increase their testosterone such as watching high octane sports. With their level of testosterone raised, the men feel much better about not only themselves but the world as well. Women on the other hand have a completely different biological drive and this can be a cause of disharmony in a relationship. Higher testosterone levels in her body could end up making her more stressed leading to fights over trivial issues that the man cannot comprehend.

To reduce stress levels as a woman you should seek ways of generating the levels of the oxytocin hormone (also known as cuddle-hormone), which will make you want to bond more intensely with your partner.

It is important that you remember how essential it is getting rid of emotional baggage from the past off your mind as well as heart. This will enable you to freshly start your endeavor of getting your ex back. You can achieve this by taking time to go out, letting down your hair and doing what you haven’t managed to do in a long time. Give your body and mind time to recuperate by indulging in exercises both at the gym and concentration games like crosswords or chess, or perhaps any game that makes you happy. Once you have successfully gotten into shape and are feeling more satisfied and confident then your chances of getting your ex back will be boosted.

Make a call to your ex asking for a casual date. If he refuses to meet you again, accept his decision and do not be disheartened, but try later when the tension of the break up has been reduce. From this point, the friendship will start again. Of which, getting your ex back at this point will be very easy. But remember as you go about “the intricacies of winning and getting your ex back” never forget that all of these are done with patience and putting yourself in a brighter mood for you to get a better result.