The Seven Sacred Steps to Extraordinary Loving

The Seven Sacred Steps are very powerful tools to conjure the energy of extraordinary loving for yourself, your partner and others. They first must used to give yourself - body mind and spirit the great treasure of extraordinarily loving yourself.

The first sacred step is to Stand as a Courtesan/Goddess. Yes, take your Stand and trust in your Divine Presence. You are the Divine Feminine in the flesh. This is the most important and powerful step as it is your foundation for all of the other steps. To take your stand choose what you desire to stand for in your life. Your stand should be something challenging for you that will change your life dramatically as you embrace and become it. Is it happiness, abundance, faith, love, joy, pleasure, health. What is your passion to stand for in your life? Even if you have no feeling or experience of what your stand would really feel like that may be the most powerful stand for you. You can always change this anytime you so desire. For ex. My stand is: I stand as grounded ecstasy in the flesh. It is important to make your stand short and simple. The more complex it is the less powerful it is.

Next choose a sacred symbol for your stand. For ex. My symbol is an infinity circle that I take my stand in the center of. What is a symbol for you of the stand you have chosen?

Now spend a few moments remembering the time in your life you most felt like you desire to feel when you are in your stand whole and powerful. If you choose joy for your stand when have you felt the most joy in your life? If you choose love for your stand when in your life have you felt the most loving and loved? Think of this time as if it is happening right now. How are you feeling with it happening right now? What are you seeing, smelling, hearing? Who are you with? Where are you? Bring it to life until you feel your feelings very strongly.

Now we are ready. Take your stand inside of your symbol feeling the feelings of this stand as if you are living it right now. Your stand of joy, love, fun, abundance is actually happening now. Trust in your Divine Presence here. Trust in the power of your Presence, taking your stand. Feel your feet drawing in power from deep, down in the Earth to energize and empower your stand even more. Feel your breathe drawing in cosmic energy, your heart drawing in fire energy, your body activating water energy from within and your yoni drawing in juicy, sexual creative energy from your second chakra . Feel the power of your stand vibrating in you. Say your stand either out loud or in your mind, then state - you know you are enough and the Universe has your back. Feel and hear and receive the Universe responding back to you. YES, you are enough, you are more than enough.

As you stand here in your Power Presence imagine a beautiful chalice appears in your outstretched hands. It can look like anything your heart desires Goddess. Fill your cup with your desires. It can be your desires for this day, for this moment, for a specific encounter or relationship, anything you desire. As the cup is filled grace moves her magic stirring up your desires. They become a delicious nectar you drink in. As this nectar of desires slowly travels down into your yoni (the sacred word in Tantra for your feminine parts as a whole unit) it activates all your cells and they begin smiling at the joy of you honoring your delicious desires. Your cells turn and smile at each other and a joyful dance begins. Grace moves your juicy nectar of desires down into your yoni that receives them with open arms and heart. She is so excited to be honored with the “how” of conjuring your desires. You don’t have to be conscious of “how” your desires will come to you. Leave the “how” to your divine feminine essence self that resides in your second chakra which we are calling your yoni.

The next movement is to prepare for the arrival of your desires. You do this by focusing on your pleasures. You let go and surrender to your pleasure. What is your pleasure in this moment Goddess, what is your pleasure now. No waiting for a Goddess, you live your life in the pleasure of each moment and trust your Divine essence is conjuring your desires while you pleasure yourself. When you fall into doubt, disbelief, or maybe even despair, you go back to your stand. When you are too vulnerable or weak to take your stand you assign your yoni, your Divine Feminine, to take your stand for you. Always go back to your stand, no matter what, no matter how long the manifestation takes. Allow your conjuring to come in its own Divine time. Your timing is exquisite. Divine timing is exquisite. Enjoy yourself and be in your pleasure while the Universe, your essence self and your yoni are on the job conjuring your desires.

When you have given yourself the fullness of standing in your presence and drawing in your own desires it is time to move into drawing your man in with your desires for him. Whether a man is in touch with himself or not, it is his deepest desire and joy to fulfill ALL of your desires. Let him know what you desire for him and from him. Write your desires down for him. In your meditations imagine him receiving your desires and moving in to fulfill them. Prepare for his arrival by focusing on your pleasure and taking your stand. Trust in your Presence as you take your stand. Find ways to be responsible for giving yourself what you desire. Let him come in his own time while you enjoy your endeavors pleasuring yourself. Here you are invited to pleasure yourself sexually also. Whenever you feel like you are waiting for someone or something, this is a red flag to return to your stand and follow your pleasure in the present moment. A Goddess is always “playing in the moment of life” focused on her pleasure – receiving, receiving, receiving what that moment is deliciously giving.

The rest of the steps are all built on this one powerful, empowering step.
Next comes: 2. Listening to how to love yourself and then him. n 3. Appreciating “Who” you are, then “Who” he is. n 4. Captivating yourself with your pleasure and your passion for life and n then captivating him with your pleasure and your passion for life. n 5. Expand yourself beyond what you know and then take him beyond what n He knows
6. Receive yourself completely and then receive him completely
7. Letting go into deep love for yourself and let him go in deep love

These steps are extraordinary ways of loving and a beautiful path to exquisite relationships with yourself and your partner. I invite you to dive in to your Divine Feminine essence and take your stand and allow the Universe to empower you. Enjoy the journey!!