If you don't want to rely on
funny pick up lines, and you need real advice to elevate your skills and self-confidence with girls, here are some tactics to set you on the correct path.
You want to take your "game" to the next level, and start interacting with women in a playful, super-confident way. Before we talk about the specifics of macking on women,or discuss sweet pick up lines, let's start at the top and look at the magnitude of looking your best. Here are a few tips to help you look and feel your best just in time for your next romp.
Work Out
Hitting the gym for an hour a day will will have a more relaxing, confidence-building effect than any kind of illicit narcotic you could ingest, and hey, keeping fit is great for you as well. Make going to the gym a regular part of your daily routine, and you will surely look and feel better...which is guaranteed to make you more attractive to girls. (Plus, gyms are outstanding places to MEET attractive girls).
Work On Your Style
The truth is, when you pay attention to how you look and women get the signal that you're a guy who has significant value. Regardless of what you might assume, women aren't searching for a guy they can turn into their next "makeover project". Wondering what type of clothes you should pick out for yourself? All you need to do is hit the department store at your local mall, and get advice from the cutest salesgirl. She'll be happy to show you some cool clothes and offer her opinion (and now you're chatting with a cute girl, which is never a bad thing!)
Wash Properly
Practicing proper hygiene goes beyond taking a shower once a day and dousing yourself in deodorant and cologne. When you shower, use body wash and scrub every part of your body. In fact, scrub every part TWICE. You could be hooking up later with a girl, and she'll be a lot more sensitive to smells and funky odors than you are.
Why The Right LOCATION Is Critical
rnIf you're going out to a bar or nightclub, be sure you score some good "real estate" for yoruself. Depending on the venue (and how crowded it is), this could mean getting a seat at the bar, or a table in the middle of the action. Possessing a piece of "real estate" inside the venue where you can chill out in private (and host the females you'll be macking on this evening) is a huge asset.
This will be your "safe zone" where you can feel in command of the situation. You can make trips out onto the dance floor or to other parts of the venue to meet girls, and you can always bring them back to your spot for a drink. As the night progresses, stock your table with a few cool girls that are fun to party with. They'll serve as a "magnet" to attract other girls to your table. See & be seen, drink & be drunk.
Now that you've "planted your flag", you need to get a feel for your surroundings by doing a few laps around the bar or club. As you do, carefully study all the signs -- the body language and eye contact -- that will help you determine who to pay a visit to as the night progresses.
I've always found that a moderate amount of booze can add an extra layer of confidence to my game, elevate your vocabulary from Bush to Obama levels and put your comedic material on par with Dane Cook and Patton Oswalt. But when you overdo the boozing, as in trying to relive the hard-partying days of Guns N' Roses in their prime, will only make you look foolisy. Your inner strife will come pouring out like Niagara Falls and your "clever" comments will be lowered to a drunken blather, so practice graceful inebriation.
Put In The Work
Whether your end goal is a set of numerals, a tour of her apartment or a hand in marriage, it is going to require work. The alternative is a night by yourself wacking off to Internet porn. Now, get off your duff and start punching the clock.
When you see a girl you're interested in, wait for the right moment -- like her standing at the bar next to you or taking leave of her 18 friends for two valuable minutes -- to seize it and tell her. This method is sink or swim, but at least you'll know where you stand without wasting time trying to gauge the probability of her ending up on all fours.
When she is within earshot and can hear what you're saying, you can make a comment about the environment...her cool necklace or tattoo...or some dorky-looking dude at the other end of the car who's been checking her out. Whatever yoru comment is based on, just make sure she understands what you are referring to.
And while you work on boosting your game, stop telling the half-truths, deceptions and outright lies that are so prevalent in nightlife venue when guys try to mack on girls. There is really no need for you to mislead her about the car you REALLY drive or embellish the amount of money you make (which women see as a sign that you're trying to compensate for something else you lack -- i.e. penis size). You'll find that being honest and direct with women is a better policy, and you're also communicating confidence this way. You can even be self-deprecating sometimes and joke around about your own vulnerabilities. Only a confident guy would be unafraid to talk this way about himself.
Be A Man Of Mystery
Women are intrigued by a man with mystique. Convey this aura by not revealing too much of yourself at once. Don't introduce yourself by name right away. Open her, use some of the conversational routines in the Mack Tactics guide, and jack up her interest and curiosity before you tell her your name. Keep her guessing -- if she asks you what you do for a living, blow it off with a joke. ("I'm a lion tamer." "I'm an ass model." "I'm a professional gigolo." Etc.) Then direct the spotlight back to her by asking her a question. Likewise, you should spread out all personal information over time to keep her guessing.
Next tip: don't try to spend the entire night hanging out with her. It's important to frame yourself as the "prize" she wants to WIN, and one way to do this is to step away and go do other things. Socialize with other people. Maybe even introduce yourself to another woman (to introduce some jealousy!). When she perceives you to be a challenge, she's going to want you even more.
It's Up To You!
Willpower and persistence aren't enough to compel a woman to fork over her phone number, or drop her panties. The bottom line is, it's up to you to make things happen and lead her down the right path. In bar and club environments, women expect YOU to approach and initiate the conversation. The above strategies only work in tandem with a measure of brazenness, so remember to check your timidity along with your coat.
In reality, you won't always get the results you're after, no matter how tight your game is, and no matter which cute pick up lines you use. The law of averages dictates that a few of your nights out are destined to culminate with you stuffing your face at some low-rent IHOP with the rest of your down-on-their-luck crew. Keeping your expectations in check, your skin thick and your sense of humor intact will help you get the most out of this game.