The Things You Learn When You Have A Dad-Bond!

The parenting phase is a bliss received to a couple while raising and shaping a child and turning them into a successful individual. The mental and physical process can go through a sequel of assorted emotions of happiness, stress and even emotional imbalances. Being a mom or father...they have a different perspective of dealing with the situation and bring harmony with an understanding to create a perfect balance in the family.

Here, when talking about the father’s role in your life, there are few things he must have told or advised you that has made a strong impact in your life and you need a father’s advice and support on such matters in future too.
Below are some of the “thought – provoking” matters you get to learn from your dad which will turn out to be very helpful in dealing with your future issues.

• It starts with your first baby walk...And even how many times you fall and cry…They want you to again walk, fall and get up again. Mother’s may get panic when her baby falls down or gets hurt...But fathers...Want you to feel the pain and move on. The harsh reality of life is showcased by fathers and they lead you to face it…no matter how brutally it hits you. They give you the honest and straight forward opinion. You learn the walk, the right way.

• They look forward to you as his child who has to come up as an outstanding firm person in life. It doesn’t matter if the baby is a boy or girl. He wants to raise them equally without any discrimination. If she is a girl he teaches her to have the qualities of firmness, boldness and right confidence in her attitude. If he is a boy...They are taught to respect the female gender, ready to take responsibility and subtle attitude while handling the situation.

• It is lot more fun, as dad teaches you about adventures kinds of stuff. You are encouraged to get your hands on riding a bike or car too early. He really wants you to learn it as he thinks it is knowledge of necessity. Not only automobiles but also he gets you involved in some sports or physical activity, take you or let you go on adventure tours, trekking or camping. You get familiar with technical kinds of stuff.

• He may push on you to select a particular career, but also understands and lets you choose the career path you want to pursue. He supports you even go for a foreign education so that you achieve the best career for yourself. He may advise you to finish off your studies first, before taking up a job. He pushes you to be successful, stand on your own feet and responsible enough before getting married. He pays less emphasize on marriage. You learn career orientation.

• They give you best financial pieces of advice with regards to banking, money saving, investment policies, making a finance record, property or business dealings and share market investments. The newspaper updates are received by our dads.

• Fathers sometimes can be very strict with regard to documentation of your certificates properly. How to systematically arrange and preserve your important documents. He wants you to work hard but finish it off on time. You learn strict discipline from your father.

• It is very rare of course, but it is very sweet when dad suggests you which outfits be looking good on you especially for his grown-up daughter, for some ceremonial occasions, he may like you to be dressed in a pretty pure silk saree or some nice designer salwar suits. For his son…he may desire for him to be dressed up smartly in tuxedo suits with a perfect necktie. You learn to be sometimes going easy and pay attention to other things also in life.
At last the final thing you learn from your dad is to show your humbleness and strictness according to the situation. When you have the best “Dad-Bond” communication becomes very transparent and you have nothing to regret about.
Happy Fathers day to all!!!