The Ultimate Guide On How To Talk To Girls On Facebook

Sending the right message to a girl on facebook can be a daunting task for some. And it gets even more complicated if the girl looks like someone who guys follow around. The State of Mind Typically, men are burdened with the role of being the pursuer. They sometimes forget to key in the effect of value which can greatly influence the conversation skills. The Pursuer As the pursuer, it falls unto you to do whatever it takes to get the girl. Sorry to burst your bubble, but 95% of the time, this approach does not work at all. Why? The thing is, women are attracted to men who emanates power. So if you want to stay ahead of the macking game, drop the pursuer attitude. How to Talk to Girls on Facebook Pick up lines are ok, but unless you have the gift of gab it can become more of a liability for you. Generally, ditch it. Don't burden yourself with how to talk to her. Rather, concentrate more on understanding the female psyche, and I'm pretty sure your odds will get better. The first thing that you should understand about how to talk to girls on Facebook is knowing how to open her up and this is through neutral or flirt openers. Between the two, I say use the former first. Neutral openers require you to do the following: 1. Make an observation about her – compliment her clothes, hair, eyes, profile picture, etc. 2. Ask an opinion about something 3. Ask a question pertaining to the 2 mentioned above What this approach does is make you less of a stalker and more of a person who just wants to befriend her. Trivial questions are good neutral openers. These are questions related to relationships such as, jealousy and what constitutes cheating. Here are some examples of Neutral Openers: "I really like that color/dress/necklace on you. I‟d love to know where you bought it because I need to pick up a birthday gift for my friend Michelle. I bet she'd love something like that." "Hi, you look like someone I can get a good opinion from. Do you think I should tell my friend Pia that I saw his boyfriend cuddling with another girl? I know the guy since we've become friends also and I do think this is not something serious. But I feel really bad for Pia. I think she deserves to know but at the same time, I don't want to be labeled as the guy who ruined their relationship." Flirt Openers may be used only when you're sure of your game because this works best if you've established eye contact or some sense of connection through online chat. Build A Bond there are lots of beautiful girls on Facebook, and knowing how to introduce yourself to them effectively is your key to bagging a few. First thing you must do is to get information about them. Start by giving her a few info about yourself and try to make her do the same. Avoid dead end questions like "What are your hobbies?" and go for open ended ones like "I bet you have a lot of fun interests that keeps you busy during weekends" Avoid the following when talking to girl on Facebook: 1. Questions answerable by a yes or a no 2. Apologizing for asking a question 3. Hitting on her before you could even establish a bond 4. Express interest from the get go –again women dig men they can't have. Have some class. And then there's the "Challenge and Push-Pull Method" that will not only put a smile on her face but turn her on as well—works all the time!