Do You Love?

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Do you love people? Do you love things? Do you love npeople and not things? Do you love things and not npeople? Do you love yourself? Do you love whatever nyou're addicted to? Do you love money? Do you love nthe thrill of the *chase?* Do you love the feeling of defeat? nnn*** Don't laugh. The feeling of defeat can be a definite ntu
on for someone who doesn't succeed at anything nexcept defeat. The point here is to find what you love. ***

You see, everyone loves something. Even the person who nsays he doesn't know how to love. At the bare minimum, nhe loves the feeling of not knowing how to love, simply nbecause he is in his *comfort zone.* If nothing else, people
*love* to be in their comfort zone, even if the comfort zone nexcludes love.

Again, I say, everyone loves something. It may be in varying ndegrees, but it's still a form of love.

If someone asked you if you felt loved, and your answer was
*no,* but you wished you did, then this article is for you.

Lot's of people don't feel loved, but wished they did. The nproblem is, they don't know how. They don't realize that love ncan be a learned response.

There are people out there who are loved, who are loving, and nwho love. Lots of times, but not always, one person is all three.
Are you saying to yourself, yeah, that's THEM. I'm ME.
Nobody loves me. That may be your reality, but it's not law.
I say: If you can think, you can learn. If you can learn, you ncan love. If you can love, you can be loved.

Practice loving yourself, and understand and believe that what ngoes around comes around. Isn't that simple?

Once you love yourself, you will automatically send out love.
*** We're not talking romantic love here. We're talking basic life -- we're-happy-to-be-alive-we're-in-love-with-the-world love.

My life turned around once I discovered how to love myself.

Do you want to know how I did it? Here's how:

Whenever I had a negative thought, I said, "Thank you, Lord!"

I triggered myself to immediately recognize that I was having a nnegative thought, and to say, "Thank you, Lord!" in its place!

The minute a thought came in that said anything negative, I went nimmediately to "Thank you, Lord!" Your words could be the nsame or different. It doesn't matter as long as you replace your nnegativity with something that wasn't negative. Your words ncould be, "Hot dang! I did it again! I ain't going to do that no nmore!", and then smile like you've never smiled before. It really ndoesn't matter. Whatever you choose to say will stop the old nhabit of thinking badly, and the smile alone will do wonders.
When you get the negative thoughts gone, you'll have plenty of nroom to feel the love you are giving yourself!

Take control of your life and your thoughts now. Stop the bad nthought the minute the first word comes out and replace it with nwords that you now *choose.*

Again, say what makes you feel good and nullifies the situation, ntaking away the negativity. nnn*** In case, you didn't realize it, negativity does not promote love.
We need to promote love in ALL our thoughts, so we can become nused to having love in our lives. ***

What you are really doing is helping yourself immensely. You know nhow? Remember that I said, What goes around, comes around?
You've now decided to stop the bad from going out. That, alone, nwill change your life around. Make it a point to only send out good.

Truly. Only YOU can decide. Only you can fill your life with love.
Once you have love inside, you'll receive more of it, because that's nwhat you'll be sending out.nnn*** If you would like to know more about what goes around, comes naround, click here http://www.tameyourbrain.com/aintcoming.htm ***

Thanks for reading,
Jann~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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