Tips For Approaching Women And Starting A Cool Conversation

During my years as a dating trainer, I've taught hundreds of men how to approach women in all types of situations. Many of them have been very successful. I've seen shy guys who were scared to approach women turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet new girls all the time (even while walking down the street!) -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with! I have actually watched incredibly quiet students of mine, who were previously too nervous to talk to girls and clueless about how to approach women, transform into "approach fearless approach experts" who could meet new girls on a daily basis (even while simply walking down the street!) and frequently score digits, dates and even hook-ups the same night. But any guy's confidence can be traumatized when he spots an incredibly sexy woman that he wants to approach and initiate a conversation with. The kind of girl who makes every dude stop and stare when she walks into the room. Well, the answer is actually quite easy: you're doing to utilize the exact same approach techniques that I tell my guys to use with any girl, but soon after you use one of my "bridging" techniques to get her engaged in the conversation with you, you use Teases and Cold Reads to eliminate her "hotness factor" and in fact use it to your advantage. I know you're probably wondering what Teases and Cold Reads are. Well, they're two very powerful manuevers that you should use when you flirt with women. Really, these are two of my favorite conversational "weapons." For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that plant a very important idea in their brains: that you are NOT a conventional guy who is bowled over and taken aback by how hot she is. If you tease a woman the right way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not rude -- you're treating her as you would treat an old buddy -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. When you're hanging out with someone you've known for a while, you're of course going to tease and joke around with that person. And so, when you tease a scorching-hot stunner, you're implying that you are totally at ease with her. She doesn't "faze" you. Of course, this is exactly the OPPOSITE of how the typical dude behaves when he is talking to a beautiful female. The ordinary guy can't even carry on a fun, interesting conversation because he's so WORRIED about saying the wrong thing! As for Cold Reads, these are STATEMENTS that you make to a woman about herself. It's as if you're playing "psychic" and telling her something about herself that no other dude in the room would ever guess. When you use an effective Cold Read, it makes you look like an extremely perceptive guy who "gets" her -- and this can create a powerful bond, very fast. And the clever thing about an effective Cold Read statement is that they apply to virtually any woman. Whether you say it to your sister, or to a hottie at the bar, she's going to nod her head and agree with your assessment . So, the interaction will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of theme. And then, you will tactfully use Teases and Cold Reads. TEASE: "Y'know, Cindy, I think I got the wrong idea about you at first. I can tell there's more to you than meets the eye. It's just too bad you're not my type..." (then change the topic) COLD READ: "Y'know something Cindy, I can tell that a lot of people get the wrong impression of you when they first see you. You have this sort of cold exterior, but it's because you've been hurt before by someone that you trusted, and you're cautious sometimes about meeting new people. But they don't realize what a sweet, sensitive person you really are underneath." This Cold Read works very well with really beautiful females because they are often self-conscious about how people perceive them. No woman wants to be seen as a shallow, hot "bimbo." These really scorching-hot women can be very insecure, actually -- and they are often eager to be appreciated for deeper qualities beyond their looks, such as their personality, their sense of humor, things they are knowledgable about, and so on.) Honestly, it isn't difficult to learn how to approach women. When you combine these strategies with other effective conversational tactics, you have the blueprint for an interaction that will set off all of her "attraction buttons" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Scoring her phone number will be no problem at all -- and where you take it from there is up to you.