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Tips For Men Who Want To Date Asian Women

Topic: DatingPublished March 11, 2011

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If your preference is to be dating Asian women, then you and I have something in common. In my case, I have been dating Asian women for as long as I can remember, in America and during my frequent overseas travels, and I've come up with a specific set of rules and strategies that you should stick to if you want to learn how to date Asian women (or take your success rate to a whole new level!) There are some distinct differences in how you should attempt to pick up Western girls, versus Asian girls. With Western girls, I will often use a "cocky & playful" approach to be a bit of a bad boy -- I'll mock women and playfully pass judgment on them, to let them know I'm really not "impressed" -- no matter how good they might look. You see, I usually give girls the sense that they need to impress ME. This means you don't her questions directly (instead of giving a direct answer, play it off with a joke); don't ask HER the standard questions ("so what's your name," "where are you from," etc), and using CREATIVE conversation instead; and it also means teasing women and "busting on them" from time to time. Not in a cruel, bad-mannered way, but in a teasing manner that communicates something very significant to her: that you're not a predictable, average guy who is hoping to impress her and "win" her.|One way to do this is to never answer a woman's questions directly. Instead, you always sidetrack her questions with jokes (i.e. "What do I do for a living? I'm a lion tamer.") And, you don't ask her typical questions (such as "where are you from," etc.) You always want to use creative conversation tactics with Western girls, and this means turning the tables and playfully teasing on them. This demonstrates that you're absolutely not just like every other guy, who acts anxious and needy. So the question is, should you look at dating Asian women the same way, and take the same approach? Well, yes and no. There are some important cultural differences between Western women and Asian women, and much of this has to do with their society and upbringing. Growing up, they watched a LOT of local "romantic serials" on television. (In the united states, we call them "soap operas.") In these shows, the handsome lead actor is always treating his woman like gold, being super "sweet" and "caring" and tending to her needs. The usual storylineinvolves a guy trying to win over the girl, but she keeps turning him down -- and so he keeps itrying until he does something remarkable to "touch her heart." Then she gives in and melts, and they live happily ever after. This stuff may sound corny to you, but Asian women are raised to believe in it. And so, they expect men to "court" them. Sure, there are less-traditional Asian women who are attracted to "bad boys." But most well-raised Asian girls would rather die than bring any shame on their families, so they would never be seen in public with a guy who wears unkempt clothes and is covered with tattoos (no matter how "cool" other women might think he is). This also means that you can't approach her like a "pickup artist" would, using lines and routines on her and trying to quickly escalate to a physical level. Indeed, the rules of attraction and seduction do change a bit when you are dating asian women. I do recommend paying an Asian woman a compliment on her dress, or how nice she looks. I don't advise guys to do this with Western women, because it makes you predictable and unoriginal. But Asian women, because they are so feminine and take great pride in how they look, will be flattered if you pay them a sincere compliment on how nice they look today. (She might blush and act shy when you do it, but she'll be flattered and touched.) It's also really important for you to display masculine behavior (i.e. "be the man") when you are with Asian girls. Asian women want to be around a masculine presence, because they are so utterly feminine. They are perfectly feminine creatures. (Unlike American women, who have been taught to try to "wear the pants" in a relationship, and will go out in public wearing a baseball cap and baggy clothes. You won't see Asian women dressing this way -- my Asian girlfriend used to spend an hour doing her hair and makeup just to go out and run errands! And they always look amazing...) I can explain to you exactly how to project a masculine "energy" that Asian women are magnetically attracted to. Just visit our Dating Asian Women site download our free 80-page seduction manual. Very soon you can be attracting and dating the stunning Asian girls you've been dreaming about.

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