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Understandling Love

Topic: LovePublished August 14, 2009

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Understanding Love

Is love easy to understand? What makes it special or what makes it disturbing? What connects? What fails?

This article discusses essential characteristics of love. You will connect to these and connect to your soul mates.

Love is discovery: Love is the process of finding oneself in other eyes. It is about realizing your self-esteem in folks who have care for you.

Love is giving: Love is giving and expecting no return favor. Control is not the hallmark of love. Love needs no calculation to get love back.

Love is becoming: True love exists when you do not have to blame or explain, you just feel and connect.

Love is doing: You can either love what you do or do what you love. Any other combination will fail.

Love is demonstrating: A solicited love will fail. A demonstrated love will win. Those who are able to demonstrate their love without intruding in the space of rnothers get love back. Love is cooperation: The only way to win love and respect is to kill greed and cooperate for common goals.

Love is sacrifice: Love demands only one sacrifice and that is to love what you love more than anybody or anything else.

Love is blessing: Fear kills fear. Might kills right. Love wins all.

Love is correction: Punishment ensures you follow a set process. Love ensures you connect to the process. The results of punishment are immediate but divisive.rnThe results of love, though delayed, are sure and uniting.

Love is self-respect: To love your love, you need to love yourself. Without self-confidence, there is no love.

Love is direction: Lost in love, lost in life. Love connects to others; any other feeling stays mechanical.

Love is work: Love your work because nobody else should.

Love is creation: Love creates. It will make you what you want to be.

Keep loving!! It creates, refines and defines life.

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About the Author

Pawan Nayar is a Senior Documentation manager creating help and information systems for major software firms. His passion is self-discovery. This article is an inspiration from his work in his hobby-site Thought Per Hour.

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