Using Humor to Attract Women

In almost every poll or survey about dating and attraction, when women are being asked – "what are the most attractive traits about men", humor always appears in the top 3 traits. rnThat's simple – humor is not only fun and entertaining, it's also related to many other qualities that women find attractive in men, such as confidence, social skills and intelligence. rnIn fact, having a good, healthy sense of humor, is by itself going to make women fall in love with you.rnSo in this article I'm going to discuss 3 important principles about using humor to attract women. Don't Be a Clown rnBeing funny doesn't mean that you should make fun of yourself or to act like a clown. Using humor should be a part of your behavior. rnIf it's more than that, it might actually look like you're working hard to be funny – and that's the opposite of attraction. rnThat's why I'm usually against telling jokes – it's a strong signal of trying hard. Instead, I believe in using funny language, internal humor, and making your whole conversation interesting. Teasing rnRemember when you were in elementary school, and the boys used to pull the girls' hair and to call them names?rnNow, I'm not suggesting that you pull women's hair, but teasing women is a great technique to involve both humor and attraction. rnI often discuss the idea that most men are afraid to act themselves around women, and women find this annoying and unattractive. rnTeasing is the complete opposite – you show women that you're not afraid to act as you want around them – and of course, teasing is also funny. rnTeasing can be done by giving her names, mocking her voice, calling her "stupid girl", playfully messing with the words or what she's saying. rnTeasing is also a great way to "break the ice" with girls, and to make the interaction between your closer. So don't be afraid to use it – it shouldn’t be insulting – but fun and exciting. Humor through Body Language rnPeople who are really funny, don't only use their words to create humor, because humor is far beyond words.rnThey know how to use their entire body to make fun or to tell a joke. rnWhen you want to add humor to your conversation, it's important to make the right facial expressions, use props, make gestures with your hands, and use everything your body has to make people laugh. rnWhen it comes to women, humor is more than words. Consider: Playfully swatting her, pushing her away from you and then pulling her back towards you, playing "thumb wars", turning away as if you're leaving, etc. Humor Is Not Everything rnRock stars get laid, comedians don't. Humor is great and it's a cool way to establish both attraction and rapport.rnHowever, as I began this article, humor is not everything. In fact, some of the best pick-up lines don't include humor at all. rnDon't make your whole conversation a joke, and remember to use other techniques and methods to make women attracted.rnAfterwards, remember that what attracts women is masculinity, power, confidence, leadership, and other traits. Humor is only one quality that women like in men.