Want to Catch Your Cheating Spouse Red Handed? Try This Foolproof Detecting Plan!

Catching a cheating spouse usually starts with a feeling. There's something not right and you just can't put your finger on it. But your inner voice says that your spouse is cheating.rnWhatever your reasons for feeling as if your husband or wife is having an affair, here are some foolproof ways to catch your cheating spouse. However, before you confront them, be sure you have actual evidence so they can't deny it. Here are some ideas.rnI Know You're Lying to MernIt's no great leap for someone who is cheating to start lying, so you need to get proof that your spouse was caught in a lie.rnSay your husband says he has to go away on a business trip. But when he returns he may have a tan even though he says he was in meetings or seminars all day. While that's suspicious, it's not proof.rnInstead, call his office and tell his assistant (when you know he's not around) that you'd like the name of the hotel your husband was staying at because you think he may have left his watch behind and you want to call the hotel to see if they have it. If the assistant acts confused, doesn't know what you're talking about or starts to double-talk to cover up for your husband or make excuses for their lack of knowledge, you have a confirmation that your spouse was lying about his whereabouts. Now wait for the credit card statement for the proof.rnDid You Take the Long Way to Work?rnCheck your wife's odometer and copy down the mileage. You should be able to determine a pattern of how far her work is from your home and how much mileage should be on the odometer. If there's considerably more miles on the odometer (rather than just quick trips to the market or to run nearby errands), again, you have proof. If you notice excessive mileage, you can simply ask how their day was and ask if they happened to stop anywhere because a friend thought they saw her on the other side of town. It won't matter if that's true or not, you're looking for a reaction to see if there is a guilty or panicked look on her face.rnSomething Smells Funny to MernYou're used to your spouse's perfume or cologne or if they don't wear any, you can recognize the scent of your bath soap. Now if they come home and smell completely different because they've obviously showered elsewhere or because their lover was wearing a strong fragrance, save an article of clothing that has the fragrance on it, put it in a plastic bag and hide it. You'll have your proof for later when you confront them.rnSurprise! I'm Home!rnPretend you're going out of town on business or that you're going to be working late. Then unexpectedly return before you're scheduled. Chances are excellent that you'll either catch him with someone else or he won't come home for the night. If they're innocently sitting home alone, just explain that your trip was cancelled or you forgot a file and had to come home to get to it. It doesn't necessarily mean that your spouse isn't having an affair; it just means that they got lucky. So be sure to monitor if they suddenly have to make a clandestine phone call or if they run to their computer to change plans with their lover.rnWhere Are the Bills?rnIf your bills always came to your house but now they're missing, call your creditors, bank and your phone company to say you didn't get your bill. They will likely tell you that your billing address has been changed. You also can go online to check for current statements and expenditures or phone records. This, too, will show where your bills are being mailed. Another thing you can do is run a credit check. You're allowed to do this free of charge once a year by contacting Experian, Equifax or TransUnion. This will let you know if your spouse has applied for another credit card in their name without your knowledge.rnRemember the old adage, if there's smoke, there's fire. Catch your spouse and douse their flames of infidelity immediately.