Weaning Mother and Baby from Breastfeeding

When a woman makes the decision to wean a bay from her breast it is not just the baby who is being weaned. The mother is also weaning herself from an emotional attachment that she knows will never be repeated with this baby. Regardless of the reasons for weaning, going back to work, feelings that it is no longer socially acceptable, or pressures from a husband or family, both baby and mother are going to miss the closeness of the breastfeeding experience. When talking about weaning there are two issues. The physical needs of mother and child. And the psychological needs of both. When the baby first latched on to the nipple it was because of the need for food. Later it was the need for both food and affection. For the mother, it started out knowing that breastfeeding was the best for the baby. Later the mother needed to relieve the discomfort of overly full breasts and also had the emotional bonding with her baby. The feeling of closeness that comes from knowing that a little life was completely dependent. Weaning a baby from breastfeeding is something that should be done gradually. If you are weaning to formula or expressed breast milk take things slowly. There should not be a timetable, schedule or clear-cut calendar. Nothing should be set in stone. You should have an agenda with an outline. All subject to change. The change depending on your baby’s needs, and your own, and those of your family, your husband and your workplace. Weaning From Breastfeeding to FormularnThere are a lot of choices when choosing the right formula. There are many varieties and types. The thing to keep in mind is what your baby needs at this stage of development. Consult your pediatrician before making up your mind as to what is right for your baby. When you start to make the switch it may be smart to express milk first to get your baby used to the bottle. After your baby learns to like the bottle gradually introduce formula. The baby may balk at the taste of formula. Or it may cause indigestion. So go slowly. Weaning from Breastfeeding and Using Expressed MilkrnBreast milk may safely be refrigerated for up to 24 hours and it can be frozen. It is a good idea to purchase a high quality breast pump. Express enough milk so that your baby has enough for regular feeding. It may be a good idea to express one breast after the bay empties the other. Tips for Successful Weaningrn When you reach the decision to stop breastfeeding altogether take it slowly. It will be uncomfortable. Your breasts are full of milk and your baby will no longer be emptying them. Avoid the desire to express them yourself. Your breasts need to be trained to stop producing milk. Some experts say that binding the breasts with elastic bandages will help. Others suggest wearing a sports bra and using cold compresses to relieve the discomfort. All agree that taking medication is not the best idea. Avoid stimulation of the breasts. Also try and keep your breasts from stimulation or warmth. When in the shower let the water run down your back. When holding your baby avoid the instinct and habit you have of holding them close to your b=body. Put a pillow or blanket between you and your baby. Let dad chip in. The father needs time with the baby and although he may never understand the bonding that takes place between a baby and a breastfeeding mother he will the closeness is good for him as well. Let him feed the baby as much as possible. The baby will enjoy the dad time and it will help the baby overcome the desire to breastfeed while in your arms. Remember. Weaning does not have to be cut and dry. Every baby and every circumstance is different. Take things at a leisurely pace. Wean the baby and wean yourself. You may have feelings of regret. That is normal. And those feeling of melancholy will continue. Each milestone a child makes is a bittersweet experience for a parent.