What i must do to get my ex back - Understanding his weaknesses

We all have our weak spots that sometimes make us vulnerable to mistakes and to people who can take advantage of us. No one is can escape this trend as, it is a continuous trend that people do not have control over. We are all born with weakness and your ex is an exception so, instead of you trying to change him all over again, maybe it is better you try understanding his weaknesses and just figure out a way of working your way through or around it.

Before you can begin understanding his weaknesses you must first identify those weaknesses. You cannot understand what you don’t know and you cannot try to adjust to something you haven’t gotten used to. Thus, the first step to getting him back through an understanding of his weaknesses is for you to identify what you are up against (his weaknesses).

Identifying his weaknesses should be a priority to you in your attempt at getting him back because once they are identified; you can map out your strategy to achieving your goal. During the period the relationship lasted you must have studied your ex thoroughly such that you become accustomed to his strengths and weaknesses. This prior knowledge is required to make your plans move faster in the direction that you want it to go.

After the identification of his weaknesses, you move unto the next phase which is to understand the reasons he might have those weaknesses. Some weaknesses are inherent while others are developed due to certain factors such as; environmental factors, peer pressure, past experiences etc.

so, you need to be careful in proceeding with this step so as not to trigger a wrong move or send the wrong signal. Understanding his weaknesses also means you accepting the fact that your ex is human and he is also vulnerable to what we are vulnerable to. So, please do not judge him based on his weaknesses rather see the strength of his character and hold on to it. In understanding his weaknesses, you might be faced with some very tempting issues that may resonate from the past, do not let this distract you by making you build on past mistakes. Rather, be bold enough to overlook those small mistakes and errors as you give yourself to forgiveness, love and understanding.

Let your ex know the depth to which you are ready to take him back by showing him that you completely understand he has weaknesses but together, you both can work on that weakness for the greater good. You really do not need to make accusations at this point or try to justify whatever might have gone wrong, rather you will need to lead the way by been mature with the whole situation and build trust again with your ex.
After all said so far, the point to make here is this; your ex sure has weaknesses, the weaknesses can hinder a lot of things including your moves at reconciliation.

However with a lot of patience, kindness and understanding on your part, you two can overcome it all. Be the one who reaches out to him at all times letting him know you are willing to understand his weaknesses and move on with them with a view to helping him over them. Your ex should never have to feel judged about the things he cannot control rather, your role as a partner should be one of encouragement, loyalty and love. As you take these into consideration be rest assured that everything will eventually work out for your good.