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What to do on my first date

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There are many things to be considered on a first date. The first date is very important as you will be regarded for who you are depending on how you're going to interact or behave. This also gives you the chance to get to know that special someone.

A first date can be so much fun and excitement if you know just what to do at the appropriate time and at the right appointed place.
Where to program your date

Choose a place and time that is comfortable to both of you. Arrive before the accepted time. It’s better for you to be the one waiting than the girl waiting for you. Don't forget to always show her that gentleness by helping her pull her seat.

Plan for an activity that both of you will enjoy. This is nothing more than arranging it with him/her in advance. A good example could be a movie show or nice dinner. You may also ask your date for any suggestion that she may like.

What so ever that your date is interested in, please try to grand her demand. For example, if your date is interested in movie show, take her to a nice one before or after dinner.
What to do on my first dater
Below are some tips on how to behave while with your date.

* Avoid strong topics: You have to remember that you are on a date. So, when conversing, avoid strong topics like politics, religion etc. It’s okay to ask simple and normal questions, but don’t make it feels as if he/she is in an interview room. Subjects like school, family, and work are not really the best on a first date. Never talk about past relationships. Talk about common interests. Ask questions that can easily lead to other topics.
* Behave properly: Avoid opening your mouth when chewing. Avoid putting your elbows on the table. You have to also mind the way you drink and behave around your date. Behave yourself by not drinking to a pup. Notice simple things that are going on around and talk about it. Avoid phone rings, as this is another form of distraction. Imagine someone talking to you after he goes to answer a call. How would you feel? I am not saying that you shouldn't pick a call, but do so when it’s necessary and excuse yourself before leaving.
* Be conversational: You have to talk and give way for your date to speak up. Pay attention when he/she is talking and don't make it an argument or interview. Don't just answer your date for Christ sake, but try to understand what he/she is up to. Remember that, the reason why you’re out is to get to know each other more. And finally, complement her. Girls like to know that you appreciate what they wear and what they talk. Let your date know how much you like her dress, smiles, beauty etc.
* Make eyes contacts: In my book How to make someone fall in love with you I explained in details how making enough eyes contact can increase the chances of someone falling in love with you and the same process happens when looking your date in the eyes. If you managed to apply this, your date will know you’re interested and enjoy being around her company.

Final words

As a guy, you should give your date a lift except she brought her car. Let your date also know how much you enjoy his/her company. If you both feel the same, then it’s very okay to plan for a second one.

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