Why Men Cheat

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I bet a great deal, many of you are still trying to figure out why men cheat. Well let me tell you the REAL reason why. It has more to do about the man than it has to do about you. It has nothing to do with how you look, how you perform in the bedroom, how you manage the household, or how you stroke his ego. They cheat because they don’t have the necessary maturity intellect to remain faithful in their relationship. You see, men who exhibit the behavior of a cheater can be best described in one word. Or maybe two words, intellectually immature. They don’t have the intellectual maturity that restrains them from seeking pleasure of any kind, outside their relationship. There are many individuals who- while in a committed relationship -LUST at someone else. And when you lust at someone else while in a committed relationship, you do so while imagining all the things you would like to do to that person. Or better yet, you can imagine all the things that that person can do to you. The KEY is to NOT put that emotion of LUST in action. Men inherently look at other women. That’s simply the nature of the beast. Now if he looks at the other woman while he is with you, he should do so through his peripheral vision. This way he does not risk disrespecting you or the relationship.
Only intellectually immature men cheat on the woman that they are in a committed relationship with. If you are in a relationship with someone and you are unhappy, you should end the relationship before you attempt to move on. Trying to have the best of both worlds, means that you are trying to hold and let go to, AT THE SAME TIME. The saying once a cheater always a cheater, isn’t necessarily so. That statement is contingent upon the degree of maturity acquired, if any, by that man after having previously been known as a cheater. An example of a man who is intellectually immature is one who knows he’s prone to dealing with a multitude of woman. And then let’s say he decides to get married, and while he’s married, he continues to deal with a multitude of woman. The behavior he is exhibiting is nothing more than intellectual immaturity. Simple as that!

JoAnne Williams-Author : Escaping from the Victim or Volunteer Role in Your Relationship. www. Escapingvvrole.com
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