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***Why You're Still Single

Topic: DatingBy Bobbi Blum Palmer, Date Like a GrownupPublished Recently added

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One of my clients recently said, “I don’t think there’s something wrong with me; I just think I’m doing something wrong.”

Bingo.

The majority of women who come to me for help with dating and relationships lack confidence. Most are sure something is wrong with them. What else would explain why they are still single at this time in their lives?

Is that you? Have you ever had the feeling that maybe you’re not lovable or men just don’t want “a woman like you?”

Well, I’m here to tell you that it’s not something wrong with you…it’s just that you’re doing something wrong.

It’s true that being your best self is critical to successful dating and finding the right man. It’s also true that there are things we all can do to improve and grow.

But ladies, at the heart of things you are kind, smart, fun, interesting, loving and lovable.

There’s nothing wrong with you. You are just doing something wrong.

Find out what you have to shift, learn or renew, and find a way to do it. Then go out and get what will bring you that ultimate joy: true and meaningful love.

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Bobbi Palmer is The Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40. She is not just a dating coach; she's a dating success story! Bobbi married for the first time at age 47 and enjoys a loving and fun relationship with her spectacular husband. Now she gives her expert advice and real compassion to help other women do what she did, using her proven and powerful 6-Step Find Hope and then Find Him program. Bobbi invites you to take her free eCourse, "The 7 Major Dating Mistakes Women over 40 Make in their Search for Love," at www.DateLikeaGrownup.com/over40.

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