You Are Free To Choose Whatever The Fuck You Want
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Can I let you into a secret?
It is not self-hatred to no longer want your life as it is…
In fact, it is self-love that helps you see that you no longer want your life to play out the way it has been playing out to date…
It is self-awareness that makes you choose to go after whatever you want…
It is self-confidence that enables you to see that actually, you now no longer need to settle for less than every single thing you want…
And it is SPIRITUAL to want to experience an expanded version of life!
Norms would have you believe that the deliberate design of a life that you adore could possibly mean that you are greedy, discontent and unable to love yourself…
They would even call you unspiritual for wanting change…
But that is just the norm way of thinking…
The norm way of settling for much less than they can get and telling themselves that that is the way it has to be.
Norms are nouns – stuck in place…
Mavericks like you and I, are verbs – active, changing, creating…
Do you understand what I mean?
Let me give you an example…
I wanted bigger boobs…
I had wanted them forever…
My body decided to stop at a certain boob size and so I assumed that the best thing to do would be to accept that and live with it – That is the way of being a norm/noun – STUCK with whatever life throws at you!
And I could have lived with my body so it was not a self-hatred thing…
I could have settled for it and did for a long while…
But I wanted more and plastic surgeons share their special gift with the world – the ability to create the body you want…
But I kept thinking it would be somehow wrong for me to get the change…
It would mea
I was vain and unspiritual and that I did not love myself…
That is the norm way and I was going along with it for a season…
And then I had children and my stomach became huger tha
I wanted it to be…
Yep, I accept it was probably something to do with me not doing the work of strengthenning my stomach muscles
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