You Can. No matter what you thought before.

You Can. No matter what you thought before.rnby Christoph NiederstadtrnYou probably watched The Secret? It's all about the Law of attraction and how it works. And it's all very inspiring. I watched it may be 60 times during an unemployment period. At the Time it filled me with great hope, that I would make it at last. rnBut like most peoples, my high hopes weren't realised at first. And like most of you I came to the conclusion that it worked for other people only. rnI saw other people win while I crawled along, - sometimes backwards. I even fell back to my old believe that God or the Universe worked against me. Had given me a psyche that was eternally programmed for loss.rnDo you have a similar experience?rnWelcome to the club. And we are a great community. We are the 95 to 97% of People who can't or rather couldn't make the Law work for them. That is nothing to be ashamed about but certainly something to think about.rnWe were trained to live in a physical world. And now that we begin to understand that we are spiritual beings we need to learn to walk from scratch. Knowing about the Law of attraction doesn't change 30 or 40 or 50 years of programming. It takes learning to manoeuvre a spiritual being through a physical world just the same as when we learned to walk. And falling down is only a necessary step during the process. It takes probably more effort to fully integrate this new knowledge to your life than anything else you did before, since we took up so many fears and beliefs in the meantime.rnOur life situations are most often of such a nature that they keep us in our place. The cat seems to chase its own tail all the time. How can you be a happy person when your life circumstances drag you back to the things you so badly want to change? And the world around us screams bad news into our ears on top of our own problems: Like the economy is breaking up. Whole countries are on the verge of bankruptcy. People fighting for freedom in the middle east are being slaughtered. How can anyone keep a happy attitude when the world appears to go towards hell?rnYet it is essential to stay positive and keep believing. You already know that this is important. If you lose your believe you lose everything.rnSo what can anyone do to make the Law of attraction work for him or her without letting failures and outside things getting in his or her way. How can You stay tuned to love and happiness? How do those who successfully implement the Law of Attraction do it with such confidence and finesse? rnI've got a few suggestions to make, which you can apply in order to keep you away from frustration and that might help you to demand from the universe what is yours by right. rn1. Receive, and do that with a good heart.rnIf you ask someone for help like this: “Can you help me? Please? I will try to be ever so good. Will you than help me? What must I do that you will help me? . . . . “? Do you think you are likely to get an answer? Perhaps if you let that person get a Word in between. But will that answer be what you want it to be? Most probably not. It will rather be another question like “Do you want that, or that, or that, or......”?rnYou must be steadfast in your believe. Do not transmit questions to the universe all the time because you are still afraid that you won't get what you want. If you ask and the thing you want does not appear right now, give it time. If something else appears be grateful for that, it is probably something you need to go through first. Allow yourself to receive. Even if it's not exactly as you wanted it. You might have to exercise a little bit more. The universe wants to give to you but unless you allow yourself to receive even if what you get is somewhat distorted because you are not yet 100% professional. Receive and then make a new demand.rnWhen you are clear about what you want, place your demand and stop irritating everybody about it. Trust that you will receive when the time is right. Try to be content with what is coming to you now and with what you have got now. Learn to be calm and give it Time.rn2. Be Patient With YourselfrnAs I said: Receiving takes time.rnI, like so many others have given up so often and had to start from the beginning again and again. Just because I was frustrated with my results so far. After more than forty years of being a nobody I expected changes to come just like that without the necessary work being done first. On the other hand I sometimes tried so hard that I exhausted myself like a person in a panic. Which was probably worse than the other.rnA pregnancy takes nine month no matter what you want. You also can't be a little bit pregnant. You either are or you aren't. rnSo adjust yourself to the Laws of Nature which are as unbreakable as the Law of Attraction.rnIn simple terms: Everything in this world has a natural development time, and this fact will not change no matter what resources you throw at it. rnThe more calm you are the more you accept your present state as a result of your former actions and the more you realise that your action now determine your future, the more you will fall in with the Law of attraction. But in our World everything takes Time. Maybe it take Bob Proctor or joe Vitale one minute to tell you they came from poverty to riches, but it took them years. LOTS OF YEARS.rnSo what makes you so special that you can do it in so many days? Especially after you have taken so many years already? Even God has to obey his own laws and so do you.rnWhat you have decided to do will take its Time in most cases, I believe, it will take years in some a couple of days. But the law of averages states that you and me most likely belong to the 95% who have to be a little bit more patient.rn3. Keep educating yourself, find friends that support yournIn school you had teachers and most of them tried very hard to support you in your studies. Without them you would most likely have failed. Find people, which support you in your effort and support others.rnDon't think that “The Secret” is the one and only solution. It for many people only the beginning. You can't put the answer to all our lives into one film.rnGo to as many seminars as you can. There at least you will find people who are looking for the same answers as you are. Read Books about this. Got to the internet and find answers. Watching the film 60 times like me, doesn't change your life. You have to change yourself in a multitude of ways. And some of them might not look so attractive for a start. Changing one habit does not always do the trick. Like going to the gym doesn't make you thin if you don't stop eating the wrong sort of food in large quantities. rnExpand your knowledge. Try to surround you with people who understand what you arr trying to do an who are going for the same direction. So you can support each other.rnIf you keep to your path it will eventually lead you to your goal.rnLike in this Poem by JRR Tolkien:rnThe Road goes ever on and on.rnDown from the door where it began.rnNow far ahead the Road has gone,rnAnd I must follow, if I can,rnPursuing it with eager feet,rnUntil it joins some larger way.rnWhere many roads and errands meet,rnAnd wither than? I cannot say. The road goes ever on and on. So remember you only have to walk on your path. Just have face, don't worry. The path will show itself. And you are probably already doing better than you Know.rnFor further information I suggest, you visit this site here “http.//www.lifeadviser.eu” Article summary:rnYou Can. No matter what you thought before. by Christoph Niederstadt rnPeople are trying to work with the Law of attraction and most of them fail to be successful while a select few make it work perfectly. Watching The Secret or Bleep doesn't do the trick. More guidelines are usually needed and sometimes hard to come by. Here are some answers.