You want to Attract Mr. Right…It Starts in the Mind!

Do you believe that you can attract Mr. Right? Do you believe that you are worthy of being with a man who loves you for who you are? The truth is what you believe about Mr. Right is what you attract.

For a very long time I believed that all men cheated. I had a deep rooted belief that if you were a man you were going to cheat on me and because all men cheated, there was no need for me to leave the relationship. I believed that I was suppose to stay in a relationship with him and act as if none thing happened. This was my truth.

I bet you’re wondering where I got this stupid belief system that made me look like an ass! Your belief system is shaped by your childhood, environment, and past experiences. During my childhood, I grew up in an environment where it was the norm for husbands to cheat on their wives and the women to stay. I was exposed to this lifestyle and soon it became my reality.

Your belief system creates your reality. When I started dating, I would always find myself with guys who would cheat and I would stay. I was content with this lifestyle and even adapted the part of cheating on the guys. Then one day I woke up and realized that this was not the lifestyle that I deserved and wanted to live.

The truth is regardless of what your current belief system is, you can change it. Once I changed my belief system the quality of men I attracted into my life changed. I found myself in happier and healthy relationship with men. Then eventually, I attracted Mr. Right.

In order for me to attract Mr. Right I had to change my belief system.

To change your belief system:

1.Become aware of your current belief system about dating, men, and love. Be honest with yourself and write it down.

I believe that men are….
I believe that dating is….
I believe that love is…

2.What childhood experiences or environment created this belief system?

3.Is your current belief system hindering you or helping you attract Mr. Right?

4.Write down the new belief system that you need to have in order to attract Mr. Right.