Experience Inner Self - Beyond Your language.
Most of our experiences of self-realization and evaluation of God is mere perception. A profound meditation and practice self-control is necessary for self-test and internal unity of God. Selfishness can not understand the language of internal autonomy. The experience of the dissolution of selfishness and the silence of consciousness is the door to self-realization of self and a true sense of the unity of God. This is the first step. Practice conscientiously, to avoid talking and listen more. Make a habit of deliberately giving more chance for others to speak.