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How does adult attachment affect your romantic relationship?

Ashley* approached me for some relationship counselling, as she thought she was spending way too much time feeling terrible in her relationship. It was so relentlessly painful for her, she was having trouble sleeping and it was beginning to affect her work. If you’ve ever caught yourself acting in ways you don’t fully understand or aren’t proud of, maybe you need to figure out your romantic attachment style and its implications for long term relationships.

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By SelfGrowth ContributorJun 8, 20061 topic

The 8 Reasons Why You Havenât Found Your Mr. Right

The statistics, in this case, donât lie. nnBy the age of 50, 27.6% of women are still single. Thatâs more than 1 in 4. nnSome of them of course, are not interested in finding a man as a life long partner â and if theyâre genuinely happy, thatâs fine. Although it does need to be a genuine wish to stay single, not a once held desire to be partnered now lost. Youâll learn more about that below.nnBut youâre reading this, so I suspect you are interested in finding yo

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By SelfGrowth ContributorMay 18, 20061 topic

How to Approach Women â 3 Actions To Remove Your Fear

The market is flooded with how to approach women books. The 5 signs sheâs ready to talk to you. The 33 ways to get her out on a date. The 1.5 billion ways to seduce women.nnI donât know about you, but I used to read this stuff and feel intimidated to even think about using it to approach women. Sure, I wanted to know HOW to approach women. But it in reality it wasnât the HOW that was a problem. It was having the âgutsâ to do it! Getting over the fear. That was my bl

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By SelfGrowth ContributorApr 27, 20061 topic

Dating Conversation â The Secret To Getting More Dates

Dating conversation - itâs critical if you want to get more dates.nnIt doesnât matter if youâre introducing yourself for the first time, if youâre on your first date or if youâre trying to turn your date into a relationship â if you havenât got the chat, you havenât got a chance.nn Itâs Not Body Languageâ¦ nnOf course, youâd be forgiven for thinking itâs all in the body language . Iâm sure youâve heard of the Professor Albert Mehrabianâs 7%/38%/55

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By SelfGrowth ContributorApr 6, 20061 topic

Flirting Body Language â Recognise It, Learn It & Win More Dates

You know that flirting body language is key to being able to get dates. So let me to tell you how to:nn1. Recognise some of the key flirting signsn2. Start to learn to use flirting body language yourselfn3. Get more dates as a resultnn Flirting Body Language â Key Signs nnLetâs cut to the chase. What are the top 3 flirting signs? nn1. The hair flipn2. A room encompassing glancen3. A smilennI want to keep this simple. There are lots more flirting signs, but if youâre rea

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By SelfGrowth ContributorMar 23, 20061 topic

First Date Conversations that Get You Second Dates

First date conversations are like great opening lines in a bookâ¦ â¦their only purpose is to get you to read the next line. Or in the case of dating, the whole reason for creating great first date conversations is to get you that second date. Or at least to the stage where it's you (and not them) choosing if you want to go on a second date. So how do you create great first date conversations that almost guarantee you a second date? Practice Great Questions Know your goal Pr

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By SelfGrowth ContributorFeb 14, 20061 topic

Thirty-Something & Worried You Wonât Ever Find Your Mr. Right?

Well, you should be. That statistics arenât in your favour! The biggest drop in available single males happens in our 30âs.nnI know thatâs not really what you wanted to hear, but who am I to lie to you?nnKeep reading though - this article isnât all doom and gloom. In it I want to tell you 3 things:nn1. Why you havenât found your Mr. Rightâ¦yetn2. The answer to that question lurking in your subconscious â will I ever find him?n3. Let you know clearly what you must

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By SelfGrowth ContributorFeb 9, 20061 topic

Whatâs Preventing You Finding Your Mr. Right?

There may be many reasons why you havenât found your perfect partner yet. Hereâs one of the main reasons many of my clients havenât found theirs, and how you can eliminate it as a problem from your life.nnn BTN Relationships nnBTN? Better than nothing.nnThat may sound cruel, but you can spend months certainly and often years going out with men that, deep down, you know arenât the one.nnWhat you have in these relationships is partial compatibility. Sometimes youâll m

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By SelfGrowth ContributorJan 19, 20061 topic

Ending Relationships - Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Should you stay with your partner or leave them? Is all the pain you suffer in your relationship worth it for the good times you have together? Will it really be worth all the pain of leaving them or is it better to stay and stick it out?nnIn most relationships there comes a point when you have to decide whether your partner really has the qualities you need to stay together. Making the decision to stay or go is almost always a very painful and confusing time as there general

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

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By SelfGrowth ContributorJan 5, 20061 topic

The First Step To Getting Over A Breakup

Lately Iâve had a run of clients having a very hard time getting over the end of a relationship, so let me share some secrets with you about how to heal.nnI have a client called Dorothy whoâs struggling to let go of a relationship with a guy who sheâd initially thought was perfect for her. When we first started working together Dorothy was really angry and frustrated that, yet again, she was going to have to re-build her love life. The one good thing about those feeling

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By SelfGrowth ContributorDec 8, 20051 topic

The Most Important Flirting Sign to Look Out For If You Want To Get More Dates

Before I tell you what it is (I'm such a tease!) there's one very important thing you must know... nn More important than knowing the flirting sign?! nnTurning the knowledge of what the flirting sign is into something you can use, easily, naturally and on an ongoing basis. That's what's more important than actually knowing what the flirting sign is. nnSome of what we learn only needs to enter our heads to be useful to us. They're simply pieces of information. Something that w

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By SelfGrowth ContributorOct 18, 20051 topic

Looking for Mr. Right? 3 ways to guarantee youâll find him within a year

Are you looking to find your Mr. Right? Your perfect partner? A man that youâll love passionately, forever, and whoâll love you back even more?nnThen there are 3 things you must know or must do in order to make sure you get him.nn 1. Get Clear on Who He Is nLet me ask you this. If you donât knowâ¦nnÂ· what kind of personality he must have nÂ· what behavioural characteristics he must possessnÂ· what he must value in lifenÂ· the keys to how he looks in order to be s*xual

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By SelfGrowth ContributorSep 5, 20051 topic

Looking for Mr. Right?

3 ways to guarantee you’ll find him within a year nnAre you looking to find your Mr. Right? Your perfect partner? A man that you’ll love passionately, forever, and who’ll love you back even more?nnThen there are 3 things you must know or must do in order to make sure you get him.nn 1. Get Clear on Who He Is nnLet me ask you this. If you don’t know…nn• what kind of personality he must have n• what behavioural characteristics he must po

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

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By SelfGrowth ContributorAug 24, 20041 topic

How to Approach Anyone and Enjoy it.

But, what do I say?nnOne of my more pragmatic clients recently made the observation that whilst her self -esteem improved by our coaching, she wasnât really getting better results when it came to meeting Mr. Right. It became clear the more attractive she found a man, the less likely sheâd actually approach him. This is a very common attraction pattern, the better they appear, the scarier we make them. Thereâs a funny (well, painful really!) dynamic that occurs when youâ

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