Charles Bender
MHR, C.Ht, MNLP, Reiki Master
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Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life Expert
Charles Bender Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- NLP, Hypnosis, Reiki, Success Coach
- Career Focus
- Public Speaker, Author & Instructor
- Affiliation
- Chrysalis Institute Emotional Wellness Center
Charles D. Bender has a Master’s degree in Human Relations and Organizational Development, is a Certified Professional Life Coach, Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Master Neuro-Lingusitic Programming Trainer. He teaches at the University of Oklahoma Norman and co-owns Chrysalis Institute Emotional Wellness Center of Moore, Oklahoma.
Specialties
Success Coaching to fine tune your existing talents and create needed balance in every aspect of your life. Success isn’t just about money and career; it’s about achieving balance and feeling fulfilled in every area of your life. Top performing professional athletes always have coaches and trainers working behind the scenes to keep the in peek performance and focused on their goals. To be really great at what you do you have to constantly invest in yourself and seek out professionals who are as passionate about your goals as you are. Charles D. Bender is that person. He is available for consultations via email, telephone, and Skype. Email your questions to me@charlesdbender.com or visit his web site http://www.charlesdbender.com
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Why Hypnosis for Weight Loss
The thing missing from most, if not all, diets on the market is the one thing that is essential to long-term weight loss success. That one thing is a means of changing your emotional connection and associations to food. Let's face it, we don't over eat because we're hungry, we over eat as a means of self-soothing. We over eat to change our emotional state. This is why food has a way of becoming an emotional crutch when we're stressed or feeling down.
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What The Bleep Are You Thinking?
What The Bleep Are You Thinking? The importance of what goes on in our thoughtsr The Sourcer
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Every Behavior Has a Positive Intention
Why drilling down to a behavior's true purpose changes everything One of the most powerful NLP presuppositions is that every behavior has a positive intention. This does not imply that everything that a person does is 100 % positive - that would be utter denial of the truth - this presupposition simply means that all human actions and behaviors should be assumed to have a positive intention embedded deep down somewhere. It's pretty much like having a pet cat; and every time the cat leaves a dead rat on your kitchen floor, you probably don't start lashing out at the poor animal.
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Getting Your Life Back On Track
Life is about learning lessons and growing as a spiritual being. The troubles and tribulation we encounter along the way are growth opportunities not punishment. Some lessons are relatively simple and others, not so much. The later of these are hugely important in terms of our spiritual growth. Of course, when times are tough it's difficult to see the value that will be reaped when it's all said and done. Hindsight is where this value tends to become most apparent.
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Living With Passion - Not Stress
Have you ever experienced a moment where everything seemed just right? A moment where you felt completely in tune with yourself and the world around you? A moment in which you felt completely unstoppable? A moment where you experienced a sense of oneness with the universe where you were completely in command and control of your own destiny? Where you felt the rush of adrenaline that only comes from being so in the moment, so completely connected to your own unique purpose, that you felt like you were being propelled forward by something bigger and more important than yourself.
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Sarcasm Or Veiled Hostility?
There's a significant portion of our population who seem to thrill on passing off sarcasm as humor when in fact it's just veiled hostility. Few people are really fooled by this tactic for any length of time. But most of us are nice enough to brush it off and move on with our day. Sarcasm once in a while isn't necessarily hostility. However, if you find yourself popping off sarcastic comments several times a day or you find that you're often the only one laughing at your sarcastic humor this article is for you. Signs You May Have Hostile Tendencies
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Overcoming The Fear of Public Speaking
Fear of public speaking is stronger than the fear of death for most people in our society. This fear can have a serious negative impact on one’s career and it can fuel feelings of low self-esteem. If you have this fear you probably already know what the symptoms are. They include pounding heart, sweating, stammering or otherwise having trouble speaking, nausea, faintness, and inability to make eye contact. Fear of ridicule and/or having your mind draw a blank in the middle of a speech are also common.
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The Map Is Not The Territory
To arrive at a point of understanding with another it helps to understand they are not using the same map you are.
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Charles Bender
"...Out of clutter find simplicity; from discord find harmony; in the middle of difficulty lies opportunity." - Albert Einstein
"The art of living is a fine mingling of letting go and hanging on." - Havelock Ellis
"Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of human freedoms-- to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way." - Viktor Frankl
Contacting Charles Bender
Visit my blog http://charlesdbender.com or emai me at charles@charlesdbender.com
How to get started
Success is a journey not a destination. Happiness is the achievement of balance in every aspect of life simultaneously. Excess in any given area promotes imbalance and discord. My work centers on the achievement of true and lasting happiness and fulfillment for my clients.
Contact me via http://www.charlesdbender.com