Dr. Lyle Becourtney
- New York State Licensed Psychologist, Certified Anger Management Professional
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Dr. Lyle Becourtney Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Anger management for teens and adults, individual therapy, couples therapy, group therapy, parent training
- Career Focus
- Licensed psychologist helping teens and adults develop the anger management skills that they need
Dr. Lyle Becourtney, a New York State Licensed Psychologist and Certified Anger Management Professional, specializes in anger management for teens and adults. In 1996, he obtained his doctorate degree in psychology from Pace University. As part of his training, Dr. Becourtney completed an externship in the adolescent partial hospitalization program at Metropolitan Hospital and an internship at the Postgraduate Center for Mental Health, both located in New York City.
Thereafter, Dr. Becourtney worked in an adolescent residential treatment center in Yonkers, NY, at Great Neck North High School, and since 1999 at Northern Highlands Regional High School in Allendale, NJ.
Dr. Becourtney currently has a private practice in Blauvelt, NY in Rockland County that is devoted almost exclusively toward doing anger management work with teens and adults. He currently sees clients individually, as couples, and in weekly anger management groups.
Dr. Becourtney has also had a number of speaking engagements on the topic of anger management including an appearance on live TV on the Nancy Grace Show on CNN Headline News. In addition, he has been the guest speaker for the Bergen County Association of Student Assistance Professionals as well as for the Bergen County Professional Counselors Association. For additional details on these and other speaking engagements, please refer to Dr. Becourtney's calendar of events.
Over the course of his career, while working in both clinical and school settings, Dr. Becourtney has treated a multitude of clients who have difficulty managing their anger. Through his innovative anger management programs, Dr. Becourtney continues to help many teens and adults significantly improve their anger management skills.
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Benefits of Anger
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Anger Management Using the Compliment Sandwich
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Using Self Talk to Manage Your Anger
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Even Ralph Kramden Used Self Talk
"Pins and needles, needles and pins; it's a happy man that grins." These classic words were made famous by Jackie Gleason in his role as Ralph Kramden in the 1950s TV sitcom, The Honeymooners. So why in the world was America's favorite bus driver so intent on repeating this phrase whenever he was on the verge of losing his temper?
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Anger Management Tips for April Fools' Day
April Fools' Day is a day marked by the carrying out of practical jokes of varying degree on friends, enemies, colleagues, and neighbors. While most April Fools' Day pranks are taken in stride, there will always be some that elicit very strong emotional reactions. Feelings of shame and embarrassment can in some cases lead to explosive outbursts of anger. So what can you do to avoid coming unglued as the result of an embarrassing April Fools' Day prank?
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Anger Management Using the Compliment Sandwich
Do you ever find yourself getting more and more angry and frustrated while trying to explain what is bothering you? Perhaps you feel like others are not really listening to you or trying to understand things from your perspective. In such circumstances, you may end up raising your voice or becoming verbally or even physically abusive.
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Anger Can Be Positive
Although uncontrolled anger can be quite costly, when channeled properly anger can also be very positive. Among other things, anger can motivate us to work harder to accomplish our goals. This could mean playing harder on the defensive end in a basketball game, studying longer for an exam, or putting in more time when learning to play an instrument. Anger can sometimes lead to newer, higher level goals, possibly fueled by the desire to prove others wrong.
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1000 Questions for Couples (and other Save Your Relationship resources)
As a licensed psychologist and anger management expert, Dr. Becourtney works with many clients who are experiencing rnmarital problems and/or other relationship problems. Visit this site to learn how you can save your relationship.
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#1 Site for Free Parenting and Anger Management Articles
Free articles written for parents that provide expert advice on anger management, mental health, and other parenting issues.
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A Discipline Program That Works: FAMILY Rules
A wonderful positive parenting program that was developed by a licensed psychologist and has been found to be extremely effective. It is easy to understand and implement and can be used with children of all ages.
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Anger Management Groups
Dr. Becourtney's anger management program teaches teens and adults more positive strategies for managing their anger. Included on this website are free articles for parents, famous anger quotes, anger management books, and other great resources.
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Dr. Lyle Becourtney
Anyone can become angry. That is easy. But
to be angry with the right person, to the right
degree, at the right time, for the right purpose
and in the right way... that is not easy.
-- Aristotle.
If you are patient in one moment of anger, you
will escape a hundred days of sorrow.
-- Chinese Proverb.
Anger, if not restrained, is frequently more
hurtful to us than the injury that provokes it.
--Seneca.
The greatest remedy for anger is delay.
--Seneca.
For every minute you remain angry, you give
up sixty seconds of peace of mind.
--Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal
with the intent of throwing it at someone else;
you are the one who gets burned.
--Buddha.
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Contacting Dr. Lyle Becourtney
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Dr. Lyle Becourtney
572 Route 303
Blauvelt, NY 10913
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917-968-0965
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Online Anger Management Classes
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If unable to see Dr. Becourtney in person, the next best thing is to sign up for the Online Anger Management Class for Adults or the Online Anger Management Class for Teens. They are both completely web-based and offer the same content that Dr Becourtney teaches in his local anger management classes. Be sure to enter X62K-ACM in the Offer Code field during registration to obtain a discount.
After being trained by Dr. Matthew Johnson, a licensed clinical psychologist, the founder and president of FAMILY Rules, Inc., and the author of Positive Parenting with a Plan (Grades K-12), Dr, Becourtney was so impressed with this parenting program that he began using it in his own private practice.