Elaine Williams

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Elaine Williams

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Main Areas
Grief, loss, widow
Career Focus
Writer, Business owner, independent publisher
Affiliation
RWA, Intl. Women's Writing Guild, Women on Writing
After 20 years of marriage, Elaine Williams lost her husband to cancer—leaving her widowed in her 40s and her three boys fatherless. For the last few years since Joe's death, she has been examining the effects of this loss on her own family, and of the effect this kind of loss has on other families. Joe's illness moved Elaine to begin looking at alte ative healing, holistic medicine, healthy organic diets, yoga, and Green lifestyles. With a lifelong interest in writing, Elaine has published romance with Silhouette books and poetry and fiction in various small magazines. She is an active member of both the Women Writers Guild and Romance Writers of America (one of her newsletters for RWA won an award two years in a row). A serial entrepreneur, Elaine almost always has one or more businesses going. Currently, she owns a landscaping company and a book publishing company, On Wings Press. Her many other interests include quilting, outdoor activities from hiking to skiing to kayaking, training and riding horses, animal science, graphic design, painting in watercolor, volunteering in her community, and living life to its fullest. Elaine lives in the Catskill Mountains of New York with her three boys.

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Elaine Williams ©2008 Beginning a life as a widow was not an easy one for me, and whether you want it or not, it is a new life. Strange, alien, different from anything you have ever known. Many days I resisted any type of change, whether it was physical or emotional. I felt too tired ...

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Elaine Williams copyright 2008 I have three boys who were 11, 18 and 19 when their father died from cancer. They all reacted differently to this loss, and many times I felt at a loss myself in trying to determine the best way to help them through their grief. My oldest son moved away from home ...

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Elaine Williams ©2008 When you become a widow your life changes and there is no guarantee of sanity in the transition. Some days are topsy-turvy; other days have a numbing calm. You wonder if life will ever be joyful again. You’re not crazy, you’re grieving. Joy has a way of ...

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I became a widow at 47. I'd always thought my husband and I would be together forever, or at least a lot longer than 20 years. We have three boys, who at the time were 11, 18 and 19. I ran the gamut of emotions...shock, fear, an utter stillness of nothing, a frenzy of activity, and on and on. ...

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I've become empowered, in total and full control of my life, or most of it....there's always the thing that blindsides you when you least expect it. The thing is, I didn't ask, seek or want this new empowerment. I thought I was doing okay. Married 20 years, three beautiful boys (okay, they ...

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I've danced with him many times, a reluctant partner, my steps stumbling and my mind preoccupied. He came in persuasive and smooth, barely causing a ripple with his subtle entrance. Other times he visited boldly, making his presence well known. For me, dancing with the demon of loneliness ...

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Due to life circumstances, the death of a spouse, I had been out of the dating game for some time and reentered the scene after a 27-year absence. I experienced what I like to call “culture shock”. One definition is as follows: “A state of bewilderment and distress experienced when suddenly ...

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One of my biggest challenges has been raising three boys as a single parent. I've been told by other parents that it's easier to deal with boys than girls. Usually this comes from a parent who has all girls. I totally, wholly disagree. Where did anyone ever get that idea? Boys have their own ...

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The day I lost my husband my heart felt ripped out, a feeling I had never experienced before. I felt clarity in the moment and confusion over where I was going, all at the same time. I wanted to cry at the injustice of a widow at 47 years of age. I had three boys and they each needed their ...

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The last two months of my husband's life I slept next to the bed Hospice had set up in our living room. At night, I lay on the loveseat I'd come to hate and listen intently to his labored breathing. It was what I did when my kids were babies—listen intently for the next breath to make sure ...

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Wait, does that sound feminist, or sexist? It’s not meant to. There’s a story behind the shirt. I re-entered the dating world after 27 years absence. I had high hopes. I was a good person, a valuable human being with wants and needs. I’d been married 20 years, considered myself a well grounded ...

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I became a widow at forty-seven years of age. I'd always thought my husband and I would be together forever, or at least a lot longer than twenty years. We have three boys, who at the time were eleven, eighteen and nineteen. When the reality of my situation sank in, I ran the gamut of ...

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I am a writer, mother and widow and I lost my husband to cancer almost four years ago. I have taken an active, empowering stance in speaking about a widow's jou ey and grief, something that is not always comfortable or easy to talk about in today's society of quick fixes and instant gratification.
To that end I have my book chronicling my jou ey from despair and grief to the enlightenment of a new life, which will be available June 2008.

www.ajou eywelltaken.com
A widow's jou ey through loss, grief and renewal

Contacting Elaine Williams

www.ajou eywelltaken.com

elainewilliams@onwingspress.com

Phone 518-628-4415

Fax 917-677-4802

OnWings Press

P.O. Box 100

East Jewett, NY 12424

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I am always on the look-out for new marketing ideas, other ways to get the word out to those who are on their grief jou
ey. I love to share my empowerment ideas with others, showing them what helped me move forward from a dark place in my life. I welcome new ideas and partnerships. Please feel free to contact me. I have a multitude of grief, loss and empowerment articles on my website. Thanks for visiting! Elaine

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I have review copies available of A Jou
ey Well Taken: Life After Loss and would be happy to forward the same, with appropriate press release, for review. Please contact me at onwingspress@yahoo.com