Harville Hendrix
PhD - World-Renowned Industry Leader
Industry Leader
Relationship Expert
Harville Hendrix Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Relationship Therapy
- Best Sellers
- “Getting the Love You Want” (nearly 2 million copies sold)
- Career Focus
- Author; Lecturer; Workshop Leader; Pastoral Counselor
- Affiliation
- Imago Relationships International
Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., is a pastoral counselor whose specialty is marriage and other intimate relationships. He has spent more than 35 years as a therapist, educator, workshop leader, and public lecturer. He has specialized in studying intimate partnerships and couples therapy for the past 15 years.
Dr. Hendrix and his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, are the collaborators in the creation of Imago Relationship Therapy and the concepts of “conscious marriage” and “conscious parenting.” He is the co-founder for Imago Relationships International. More than 2,000 therapists practice Imago Therapy in 21 countries, and over 160 certified Imago presenters offer workshops and seminars each year.
Dr. Hendrix is a graduate of Mercer University, which awarded him an Honorary Doctorate of Humane Letters. He has a theology degree from the Union Theological Seminary in New York and an M.A. and Ph.D. in religion and psychology from the University of Chicago Divinity School. Dr. Hendrix is also an author, whose bestsellers include Getting the Love You Want and Keeping the Love You Find. His books are published in more than 50 languages.
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Harville Hendrix Audio & Video Programs
Staying Together
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
Marriage as a Path to Wholeness
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
Love’s Trilogy (three cassettes)
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
Getting The Love You Want—Safety & Passion
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
Conscious Communication
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
Getting The Love You Want: A Video Workshop for Couples (seven hours)
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
Harville Hendrix Books
Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
Keeping the Love You Find: A Personal Guide
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
Giving the Love that Heals: A Guide for Parents (co-authored with wife Helen LaKelly Hunt)
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
The Couples Companion: Meditations and Exercises for Getting the Love You Want (co-authored with wife Helen LaKelly Hunt)
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
The Parent’s Companion: Meditations and Exercises for Giving the Love that Heals (co-authored with wife Helen LaKelly Hunt)
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
Personal Guide: Meditations and Exercises for Keeping the Love You Find (co-authored with wife Helen LaKelly Hunt)
http://gettingtheloveyouwant.com/
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Harville Hendrix
• Psychologists say that “chemistry” is really our unconscious attraction to someone who we imagine will meet our particular emotional needs. What we unconsciously want is to get what we didn’t get in childhood from someone who is like the people who didn’t give us what we needed in the first place.
• Love and anger are two sides of the same coin.
• Most marriages fail because of the persistence of the unconscious aspects of the relationship. Any unfinished business we had with our caretakers becomes a compelling agenda with our partners. All too commonly, however, the partners never become aware of the hidden needs that drive their relationship and never learn the skills they need to successfully address those needs.
Contacting Harville Hendrix
ADDRESS: Imago Relationships International
335 North Knowles Avenue
Winter Park, FL 32789
PHONE: 1-800-729-1121 or 407-644-4937
WEBSITE: www.imagorelationships.org
How to get started
The best place to get started with Harville Hendrix is to read his best-selling book, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. The book is a valuable and effective guide to achieving a more loving and satisfying relationship. Dr. Hendrix says he wrote it “to share with you what [he has] learned about the psychology of love relationships and to help you transform your relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship.”
Dr. Hendrix believes that when we choose partners for our relationships, we often choose people we hope will help us heal our childhood wounds. We unconsciously seek out people who possess both the positive and negative traits of our original caretakers. Getting the Love You Want is designed to help us overcome these challenges. The book has helped a countless number of couples improve their relationships.
Getting the Love You Want is divided into three sections. The first covers the “The Unconscious Marriage,” which shows how the remaining desires and behavior of childhood interfere with the current relationship. The next section, “The Conscious Marriage,” shows a marriage that fulfills those childhood needs in a positive manner. Finally, Dr. Hendrix provides a 10-week course in relationship therapy, which gives step-by-step exercises to help you and your partner learn how to “replace confrontation and criticism…with a healing process of mutual growth and support.”
Other highlights
Dr. Hendrix has appeared on The Oprah Winfrey many times and speaks regularly on local and national radio shows. He has also been written up in numerous magazines and newspapers internationally. Dr. Hendrix is the recipient of several honors, including the 1995 Outstanding Pastoral Counselor of the Year Award from the American Baptist’s Churches and the 1995 Distinguished Contribution Award from the American Association of Pastoral Counselors.