Jonathon Aslay
BS from Loyola Marymount University
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Relationship Coach Expert

Jonathon Aslay Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Relationship Confidant
- Best Sellers
- “Online Dating Secrets Revealed”
- Career Focus
- Speaker, Dating Coach, Entrepreneur
- Affiliation
- http://UnderstandMenNow.com
Jonathon Aslay is a successful entrepreneur, a sought after speaker and graduate of Loyola Marymount University. In additio
Jonathon graduated with honors from life’s virtual University of Dating. As a dating and relationship expert Jonathon is a defender and protector of women’s hearts across the nation. He helps women transform from being addicted to Mr. Wrong into finding their Mr. Right.
Jonathon, a successful entrepreneur, coach, speaker, and author of “ONLINE DATING SECRETS REVEALED” teaches the Do’s and Don’ts of Internet Dating and helps women become date and relationship ready.
Jonathon’s journey from seeking love to teaching women about how to find love started in 2005 after his own divorce and discovering the trials and tribulations of dating online. From his own experience coupled with over 10,000 hours of listening to and coaching women as they shared their heartbreaking stories, Jonathon found his true gift and passion in life as a Heart Champion for women.
Jonathon is like A GUY SPY to the male mind who truly understands the way a single or divorced man thinks and acts. Through his heart centered, radical honesty coaching style, he helps answer the questions that baffle women the most when it comes to dating, mating and relating.
Jonathon has created a unique website called Understand Men Now which offers dynamic weekly tips, FREE inspirational teleclasses, and coaching opportunities for novice and veteran daters who find themselves dating or in unsatisfying relationships with challenging men. Visit his website www.UnderstandMenNOW.com to find out more about all the other programs and opportunities he has created for women’s dating and relationship enlightenment.
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Five Deadly Dating Mistakes Women Commit
The very nature of a man drives him to conquer, protect and provide. With that being said I wish to conquer wrong thinking many women may have entertained and protect you from harm by providing you with information that could prevent you from getting hurt and damaging your relationships. When the knight in shining armor makes his grand appearance in your life these are the five destructive deeds you definitely want to avoid: 1. The Controlling Factorr
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Are You Rushing the Relationship?
Have you ever found yourself in this situation? You started dating a good guy who is full of integrity, charming, funny and considerate. The lines of communication seem to be wide open and you feel connected. You start to imagine life together with him on a daily basis and ponder over fantasies of how he may propose and where the wedding will be, the dress, the guests, the honeymoon. In your mind you have already married him and are living happily ever after. In reality he has never even once discussed marriage with you.
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The Love Language of a Man
As a Relationship Confidant, I frequently get asked questions that could be issues of conce for many re-entering the dating scene. One gal was distraught over the lack of appreciation she felt from her man due to his memory loss when it came to special anniversary dates. She also felt he was not cutting it in the affection department during the day and seemed interested only at night.
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Five Keys to Avoid Desperate Dating
In my 10,000+ hours of listening to women who are dating at 40 or older, I hear they want men to fall for them before they take the time to find out if the guy is worthy of their affections. As a Heart Protector of Women let’s explore the dangers of dating desperately rather than with confidence and clarity.
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Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible?
If you choose to take on this mission, you must know before entering the territory that the terrain can be a very challenging. The agents of change will manifest in the dark and the baggage has not necessarily been left at the terminal. You will encounter emotional assaults from Agent “Ex” whether directly or through psychological warfare. The instructions in this portfolio are for your eyes only and will self destruct should you not choose to accept this mission.
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Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II
Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II In Part I we talked about three key elements for women to consider when dating a divorced man. As the Heart Protector of Women, let me remind you that before allowing him to participate in any “undercover operations”, you must determine if he is the one worthy of your time, attention and affections. So let’s pick up where we left off: 4. Does He Have a Swiss Bank Account?r
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Finding Mr. Good Guy
Frequently I receive emails from women that desire a romantic relationship yet never go anywhere or do anything that would help facilitate meeting good men. Landing a partner for life does not usually happen at the grocery store, nail salon or single moms club. Even if you go register with online dating services or a matchmaker, please understand that it really comes down to you getting yourself out there to the right places to meet new people.
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How Our Past Affects Our Relationships Today
There are many dynamics to a relationship and I think most of us can agree that we rarely see everything going on under the surface, yet we feel the discomfort. As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind I would like to reveal three elements that can cause relational distress and immobility. Neglectedr
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Dating men of 40: Time, Attention and Relationships
As a Relationship Coach to Women over forty, I have the opportunity to give a listening ear to many who have either been dating for a while or are just getting back into the dating adventure. A lot of the women I hear from are frustrated because they feel the man in their life does not give them enough time or attention. Is this you? As a Guy Spy into the male Mind, allow me to reveal a common mistake I see women make. They do not understand that a man’s identity is based on what he does. Women tend to define themselves based on who they are to other people.
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Poker Players and Dating Slayers ~ Men Playing Poker May Reveal How They Date Online
The way a man approaches online dating could be the exact way he plays poker (like Texas Hold’em). If you can figure out how a man plays poker, you might easily see how he dates.
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Seduction: From the Avenue to the Altar
Has seduction become a lost art? In a society of strong women with powerful careers and tight schedules it may have lost it's place of importance. Being aggressive is not necessarily considered sexy by the man on the other end of the couch. Alluring him with hints of desire can whet his appetite to crave your company and captivate his heart.
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DOES HE REALLY LOVE YOU?
You remember the scene, yellow daisy in hand, the girl is picking petals off one at a time reciting “He loves me, He loves me not, He loves me...” and hoping for the luck of the draw. Relationships can feel like this wondering if he really does love you at all. How will you know for sure? As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind, I help women understand why men behave the way they do. Just as guys may be into sports, music, cars, etc they also have their own way of enjoying relationships.
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Understand Men Now
Understand Men Now can help you with dating, relationships, and more. Experience the Most Connected, Loving Relationship of Your Life by Learning the 7 Secret Insights about Men and How they Think at Each Stage of a Relationship.
August 12, 2013
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UnderstandMe Now.com
Understand Men NOW is a heart centered membership community where I am honored to share the male perspective (direct, tough love with a heart) with proactive, relationship-oriented women .My private coaching programs are designed to teach you purposeful dating and why courtship leads to a relationship.
May 18, 2011
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Jonathon Aslay is a Dating and Relationship Coach who is a Heart Protector for Women and a Guy Spy into the male mind.
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Understand Men NOW is a heart centered membership community where I am honored to share the male perspective (direct, tough love with a heart) with proactive, relationship-oriented women.
My private coaching programs are designed to teach you purposeful dating and why courtship leads to a relationship.
Contact me to find out more at http://www.UnderstandMenNow.com