Kare Anderson
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Create Profitable Peer-to-Peer Communities
Get on the good side of prospective customers. Be seen where they are in a good mood. They’re more likely to buy your product, research shows. It’s the Halo Effect of being associated with people, products or situations that make them happy.
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Your Surest Path to Greater Success and Friendship
I got this strange idea in eighth grade. To run for student body president is not a surprising decision for most outgoing, popular people. But I was neither. In fact I tended to daydream, read books that were not on the required list, and sit in the table at the far corner of the cafeteria with the only two friends I had, Denise and Janice. What unfolded within two months led me to discover the single best method to succeed (sometimes) in new endeavors.
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Kindness Can Opens Hearts and Unexpected Opportunities
Kindness is often unspoken. “An eye can threaten like a loaded and leveled gun, or it can insult like hissing or kicking; or, in its altered mood, by beams of kindness, it can make the heart dance for joy,” wrote Ralph Waldo Emerson. At another time, Emerson wrote, “You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late.”
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“Your Likeability Quotient: Your Gut Instincts & Getting Along Better, a Quiz”
Why do we instinctively like some people and find others irritating or worse? What makes us agree, buy, help . . . or not? Do your gut instincts help or hinder your “LQ” – Likeability Quotient? From an expert on gut instincts, gain insights about how to say it better next time. Answer this quick nine question quiz and get some tips. Some of the answers may surprise you. 1. Do people get along better when talking to each other if they are facingrneach other or if they are standing side by side?
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Bring Others Closer by Praising What You Want to Flourish
When the priest was moved to a new parish he approached he asked his superior to ask for permission, “Would you mind if I smoked while praying?” and was, not too surprisingly, turned down. Some wise people instinctively know they can gain approval by how they ask. Set the stage for people to ...
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Create Productive Enthusiasm In Yourself And With Others
Enthusiasm is not the same as just being excited. One gets excited about going on a roller coaster. One becomes enthusiastic about creating and building a roller coaster,“ suggests Bo Bennett, and I heartily agree. Getting enthusiastic is a little like learning to breathe. Nobody can tell you exactly how to do it, but without it you’re in big trouble. No one but you can discover the compelling purpose or exciting goal that ignites enthusiasm inside you. Discover your strongest passion (and talent) by noticing the situations in which you are both:r
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HowTo Become More Trustworthy
Even though it’s been over a decade ago, I vividly recall my shock when sitting in a committee meeting for a non-profit. The chair asked us each to report back on the task we agreed to do. The second told us that she hadn’t started on her assignment because it had been a very busy month at work. Also, she didn’t offer a deadline by which she would get it done. Nor did she acknowledge how her lapse was going to stall our project.
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Why And How To Cultivate Unexpected Allies
Those who don’t act right (like you) can actually be your most mutually beneficial allies. Here’s how: Some people believe we each have a set point in our temperament, along the continuum of pessimistic to optimistic, meaning we habitually behave at that point on the continuum. Psychology professor Martin Seligman believes that those who operate at the positive end of that range are more likely to thrive, have friends, and advance in their work.
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Cut Marketing Costs With Cross-Promotional Partnerships
Even the most time-pressed business owner can attract more customers with less effort through the right cross-promotional marketing. Why? Because when you join forces with other credible people who also reach your target market you can reach your customers more efficiently, credibly, and memorably with the right offers and services. To stand out from the competition in a crowded advertising marketplace, businesses, nonprofits, and government agencies are enthusiastically adopting this nimble approach to "out market" bigger competitors.r
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Ways To Become More Quotable
As someone who grew up cited as “phoebically shy and a stutterer I shocked most of my high school colleague when I was invited to speak, five years later at their annual state conference, coming back as some one who’d become a Wall Street journal journalist. In fact, when I walked in to give my speech, many who knew me in the audience looked started then laughed at me. My core message in my talk and life was-- and is -- the enormous benefits of having attracted extremely diverse allies with different talents, experience and temperaments.
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Spur Others to Feel Closer and Better
These three true stories share a vital trait that can you can adopt to boost your mood — and your value and visibility with others — as an individual and for your organization: Thief Apologizes And Returns Money To Nashville Market 11 Years Later, How Google Maps Led To the Rescue of A Los Angles Stray Dog, and Valentine’s Gesture From Dead Husband To Wife Will Make You Melt. The common trait? They are uplifting good news
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Mortified by My Mistake Yet I Learned
To this day I’m mortified when I see a box of chocolates. I was in the Antwerp airport, heading back to San Francisco. Before settling into a seat at my gate I bought two indulgences for the flight home, John le Carré’s Our Kind of Traitor and a box of Pierre Marcolini truffles, one of the most popular brands in Europe. Within minutes I was swept into le Carré’s masterful spy mystery. But I promised myself I would savor my truffles, eating each one slowly. At some point, the motion of the man’s arm next to me caught my attention.
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Moving From Me to We
Ways to accomplish something greater with others than you can alone
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SayitBetter
Newa, tips and insights on how to become sought-after by being more frequently-quoted, forging SmartPartnerships and other ways to communicate to connect - from Emmy-winning former NBC and Wall Street journal reporter, author of LikeAbility, SmartPartnering and more
September 23, 2007
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Say it Better Center
Fresh ideas on how to communicate to create more opportunity with others. In a flattening world dedicated to "the power of us" those most likely to thrive are adept at bringing out others' best side in SmartPartnerships.
September 23, 2007
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Make your next conference more participatory so they’ll want to come back next year. How many conferences have you attended where you felt talked “at” by a series of speakers up on stage? Then you rushed between sessions to meet new people and catch up with friends in the hallways. Wouldn’t it be great to have a meeting designed to support you in exchanging ideas with the colleagues most helpful for you? Well, next February many professional meeting planners will be attending a conference that’s designed to in a “Me2We” way – where attendees turn from passive to active participants - interacting more frequently and productively. Then they can celebrate together and to learn from each other. (Not a new idea - just one that is spread too slowly for some, including me.)
Want your next conference to be more meaningful and memorable? Via Jim Louis, one of the adept moderators of a closely-knit online group to which I belong called MeetingsCommunity (MeCo), I discovered MeetingsNet’s coverage of the innovative formats for the conference, “MPI Meeting Differently”:
“To improve the trade show experience, MPI is changing the layout of the exhibit hall. One innovation is something MPI calls “conversation spots,” freestanding circular plexiglass towers that are divided into quadrants and placed in high-profile spots around the exhibit hall. The idea is to provide a more intimate meeting area for exhibitors and attendees than they normally find on the trade show floor.
Organizers tinkered with more than just the trade show format. New concepts include:
a. The “Conversation Café”-a learning environment based on a coffee shop.
b. “Book clubs” - discussions led by book authors and subject matter authorities.
c. Wikis - each educational session will have its own wiki pages to encourage pre- and post-session communication and collaboration.
d. Educational sessions in “soft seating” or lounge-style meeting environments. Most of the 80 educational sessions will eschew a traditional classroom setting. Instead they will be held in the round to facilitate interactive learning and discussion.”
My faint hope is that this is the tipping point to make meetings even more interactive so attendees find in each other fresh ways to be mutually-supportive. Even as a “professional” (aka paid) speaker I’d welcome more short (20 - 30 minute) “meet the expert” sessions around 8-12 person tables, with a bell ringing so you could move through three sessions in a block. Then the mix and mingle times are more fun and valuable. That’s because you’ve probably discovered some people who share your interests and gotten a sense of whom you might like and respect enough to talk further.
For an invitation-only gathering, have inclusive, action-inducing rituals like the TED conference or Rennaisance Weekend.
Plus why not let attendees vote on the topics, speakers and session formats they most want?
And why not ask all invited speakers to 1) submit in advance, three of the tips they will present, then 2) receive an email of all speakers’ tips and be required to 3) refer to at least two other speaker’s tips as they complement the speaker’s message. Thus the conference would have more continuing threads of themes.
Also why not have lively panels of inside and outside experts:
1. journalists or columnists
2. researchers at investment banks, and
3. veteran, respected exhibitors
... who see, from a different perspective, the sector represented in the conference.
Give each panelist just seven minutes to offer their best two pieces of advice for attendees. Encourage attendees to submit written questions as they listen. Volunteers could gather the questions, sort for best mix for the strong and well-liked MC to present to the panelists to answer. As attendees leave the meeting room, they are given the handout with the written version of panelists’ tips and their bios. Thus attendees see more candor and pertinent content - in a contagiously active way. Who knows? That may lead to more unconferences. See more at movingfrommetowe.com.