Lance E. Ong
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Creating Lasting Love
Many people are able to get into relationships. And many are able to attract partners who are suitable for them, physically and mentally. But for many people, their relationships do not last much more than 3 months! This is a shocking truth of the dating world. Why does this happen? Why can’t we make it last? I’ll give you three reasons:nnn*1. Treating a Relationship as a TransactionnYou cannot be calculative when it comes to love. Counting who did what for whom l
July 19, 2006
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The Man's Way to Finding True Love
Every one of us is looking for an ideal partner, the person who fulfils our need to love and be loved. The problem is there are so many people who can pass the first-glance test that you can be looking your whole life and not know who to select. So how can you end up with an ideal partner who’ll love you with all her heart? This article leads the way.nn(In the Garden of Eden)n Eve: Adam, do you love me?n Adam: Who else?nnEvery day you go out, you see hundreds of attract
July 16, 2006
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The World's Greatest Lie...
"Everyone believes the world's greatest lie..." says the mysterious old man.n"What is the world's greatest lie?" the little boy asks.nThe old man replies, "It's this: that at a certain point in our lives, we lose control of what's happening to us, and our lives become controlled by fate. That's the world's greatest lie."n(An excerpt from The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. A fable about following your dreams.)nnDo you believe you have no control over your life? Are you who you are
June 6, 2006
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How to Have a Beautiful Life in a Mad Dash Society
When you go out, look at the people around you. Don't they look like they're in a hurry to get somewhere? When you ask your friends out for a gathering, do you often get, "Sorry, I've got an appointment, or I've a meeting on that day"? Many people are chronically busy nowadays. They all have the compulsion to be successful as fast as possible. And to achieve that, they figure they have to compress five years of work into one, by moving five times faster! So they rush â deve
February 2, 2006
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3 Magic Bedtime Questions
For many people, life zooms past once they reach their working age. Everyday, it's the same flash routine of waking up, going to work, coming back from work, and sleeping. It's no wonder why you'll ask yourself, "How did I get old so fast? Where did all the time go?"nnThe problem is in the routine work. The human mind has this habit called deletion. Anything that keeps repeating, memory does not record, simply because it's not worth taking notice of.nnSo how can we slow down
December 28, 2005
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Three Pillars of Righteous Living
"Three Pillars of Righteous Living" nnControlling Your Thoughts to Control Your Life.nnâRighteous Living means defining what you allow yourself to experience and receive influence from, so you will preserve the best mind-set which allows you to achieve success.ân- Lance E. OngnnHave you ever felt stuck in life? Like a hamster running on a wheel, and you are not getting anywhere or achieving new results in your life? Many people cannot make breakthroughs in their lives bec
December 28, 2005
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The Magic of Dreaming Big
If you dont dream big enough, you major in minor things. A sad fact of life is that people dont live to achieve their fullest potential. Most of the time, the act of surviving consumes them. Earning enough to live a comfortable lifestyle takes up all their time. And in the end, they have yet to find meaning and fulfilment in their lives. nnWhats wrong here? How is it that people who have a job, with steady income and a comfortable lifestyle, can still find their lives lacking
December 27, 2005
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