Louis LaGrand
Ph.D.,CT
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Extraordinary Experiences of the Bereaved: Love Lives On Author and Grief and Bereavement Expert
Louis LaGrand Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Grief Counseling; Research on the Extraordinary Experiences of the bereaved
- Best Sellers
- Love Lives On; Messages and Miracles; Gifts from the Unknown
- Career Focus
- Author, inspirational speaker, and international workshop presenter on Extraordinary Experiences
- Affiliation
- Loss Education Associates; Association for Death Education & Counseling; The Academy of Spirituality and Paranormal Studies
Louis E. LaGrand, Ph.D., is Distinguished Service Professor Emeritus at the State University of New York and Adjunct Professor of Health Careers at the Eastern Campus of Suffolk Community College in Riverhead, New York. He was a member of the debriefing team for the Nassau County Medical Examiner's office on the TWA Flight 800 disaster, a former member of the Board of Directors of the Association for Death Education and Counseling, and a founder and past-president of Hospice & Palliative Care of St. Lawrence Valley, Inc.
The author of eight books and numerous articles, he is known world-wide for his research on the extraordinary experiences of the bereaved (After-Death Communication phenomena). His first two books on the subject of the extraordinary have been translated into several languages. Messages and Miracles: The Extraordinary Experiences of the Bereaved is listed in the 100 Top Bestsellers for Counseling by the Online Dictionary of Mental Health. Love Lives On: Learning from the Extraordinary Encounters of the Bereaved, his latest book, was released in November, 2006 by Berkley Books.
Dr. LaGrand holds advanced degrees from Columbia University, the University of Notre Dame, and Florida State University and is certified in Thanatology by the Association for Death Education and Counseling. He has appeared on numerous radio and TV shows throughout the country including Unsolved Mysteries, Art Bell Coast to Coast, and Strange Universe. With 25 years of counseling the bereaved, he is an international speaker who gives workshops on death-related topics in schools, hospices, and health agencies. He is currently Bereavement Coordinator at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Venice, Florida, and Director of Loss Education Associates.
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How to Deal with Your Anger When Mou ing
Is the anger over the way your loved one was treated by the medical community eating you up? Or, are you angry at those who should have helped you in the last days of your loved one’s life, but were nowhere to be found? How can you reduce the intensity of your anger and then let it go? There are ...
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How To Cope With Unavoidable Suffering
Unavoidable suffering is a condition of existence, a part of the mystery that shrouds every life. It is usually the result of broken attachments to those we love or the loss of something cherished. It cannot be prevented because death and perpetual change are uncontrollable givens of living. On ...
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Outlets for Emotional Pain When Grieving
Pain, whether emotional or physical, is a condition of existence. No matter what your station in life, you are bound to confront relationship separations, work conflicts, medical difficulties, or the death of a loved one. No one escapes these circumstances of life and the pain they ...
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Grief and Loss: When to See a Grief Counselor
Do you feel stuck in your grief? Has it been months since your loved one died and you feel you should be feeling better? Do others close to the deceased seem to be adapting more quickly than you? Has the pain gotten worse? These are questions with very individual answers. They may or may not indicate outside assistance is necessary.
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The Top Ten Things to Know About Grief
Grief is an integral part of life and living. Everyone grieves, although not everyone mou s. That is, not everyone goes public with their grief. They have been taught to keep it to themselves because it is much too personal. Consequently, silent or suppressed grief tends to perpetuate many ...
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Grief, Loss, and Brain Maintenance
Has it been weeks since the death of your loved one and you still feel sluggish with low energy levels? Are you hesitant in making decisions? Confused? Is hope draining out of you and all you think about is a bleak future? It is not unusual to suffer physical and emotional depletion when mou ing. Adapting to the loss of a loved one is always a major challenge and calls for a new awareness and the development of new routines without the presence of the beloved. We all must meet change by changing.
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What to Do If You Uncover a Secret About Your Deceased Loved One?
Has someone you trust told you a secret about your deceased loved one that has added immeasurably to your grief? Where you going through his/her papers and found some information about the past that has stunned you? Has evidence of physical or emotional infidelity turned up upon reading old ...
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Grief, Loss, and a Proven Plan for Peace of Mind
Are you in a state of confusion? Have you made the decision that you will get through this loss? Are you confronting your loss and fears? If not, why not? Peace of mind is the ultimate goal of good grief so that one can begin the work of reinvesting in a life in the absence of the physical ...
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It’s Okay to Establish a New Relationship with Your Deceased Loved One
Those mou ing the death of a loved one are often told to find closure, let go of the deceased loved one, and go on with their lives. For most, this admonition is tantamount to saying forget about the person. In truth, no one ever forgets the beloved and never wants to since our memories and our ...
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The Search for Meaning When a Loved One Dies
Meaning affects everything we do; and equally important it affects the body and its physiology as attested to by the many examples of body-mind relationships, such as the placebo effect. Finding meaning in death is not always easy, and sometimes it is hard to find. However, the search for ...
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How to Be a Positive Grief Model for a Child
Much of our behavior in adult life is based on the examples we were exposed to as children. Many of these examples were backed up with admonitions, directions and information that were put forth as “truth,” the way it really is. This information becomes emblazoned on the walls of our ...
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How to Surrender to Grief
“What you resist persists” is an old psychological saying that is especially applicable to anyone when mou ing the death of a loved one. In other words, trying to repress feelings, “be strong” or pretend you are doing well when you are not, will guarantee that pain will spill out in unexpected ...
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Louis LaGrand
"The possibility of life originating by accident is comparable to the probability of the unabridged dictionary resulting from an explosion in a print shop." Albert Einstein
It is critical to remember that your past does not determine your future, unless you allow it to.
What we really do in the mou ing process is to learn to start a new life, in effect build a new identity and way of living, without the physical presence of our loved ones.
We can always learn to love in separation. Don't settle for merely getting by, grow from the experience of loss.
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