Martha Tara Lee
DHS, MA, BA
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Clinical Sexologist in Singapore Expert
Martha Tara Lee Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Sexology, Human Sexuality
- Career Focus
- Clinical Sexologist
- Affiliation
- Eros Coaching, American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists , American College of Sexologists, Asia-Oceanian Federation for Sexology
Founder of Eros Coaching, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a Clinical Sexologist who conducts sexuality and relationship coaching, and runs sexuality education events in Asia. She is compassionate, practical, honest, interactive and solution-focused. Dr. Lee incorporates a blend of conventional and alte ative approaches and draws upon a variety of styles and techniques to support each client as they work to resolve both current problems and long-standing patterns.
Based in Singapore, Dr. Lee utilizes her years of experience in professional communications and volunteer counseling to optimize her coaching work. A well-traveled Singaporean Chinese, Martha welcomes individuals as well as couples of all sexual orientations.
Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She also contributes regularly towards YourTango and Elephant journal. She is also the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution for OMTimes Radio. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. Her first book Love, Sex and Everything In-Between was published by Marshall Cavendish in Oct 2013.
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Online learning video: Fire on the Mountain
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2011/01/fire-on-the-mountain-male-genital-massage/
ex Possible: Overcome Vaginismus for Ladies
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2015/05/online-program-sex-possible-overcome-vaginismus-for-ladies/
Online learning video: Fire in the Valley
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2011/01/fire-in-the-valley/
Online learning video: Tantra Massage
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/07/tantric-massage/
Online learning video: Tantra Lovemaking
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/07/tantra-lovemaking-for-couples/
Online learning video: femme à femme
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/07/femme-a-femme/
Online learning video: Amazing World of Orgasm
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/07/amazing-world-of-orgasm/
Online learning video: Kama Sutra of Sexual Positions
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/04/kama-sutra-of-sexual-positions-and-the-fine-art-of-sexual-positions/
Online learning video: How to be a Sex Goddess
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/07/how-to-be-a-sex-goddess/
Online learning video: Lovers Getting Started with Erotic Massage
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2010/04/lovers-getting-started-with-erotic-massage/
Ready, Get Sex, Go: Overcome Premature Ejaculation for Men
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2015/05/online-program-overcome-premature-ejaculation-for-men/
Sex JumpStart for Couples!
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2013/11/online-program-sex-jumpstart-for-couples/
Martha Tara Lee Books
Petals
http://www.amazon.com/Petals-Nick-Karras/dp/097435628X?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
Love, Sex and Everything In-between
http://www.eroscoaching.com/2013/10/my-book-love-sex-and-everything-in-between/
What's Down There?
http://www.amazon.com/Whats-Down-There-Questions-Gynecologist/dp/0312644361?&camp=212361&liWh
I Love Female Orgasm
http://www.amazon.com/Love-Female-Orgasm-Extraordinary-Guide/dp/1569242763?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
She Comes First
http://www.amazon.com/She-Comes-First-Thinking-Pleasuring/dp/0060538260?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
Sex for One
http://www.amazon.com/Sex-One-Selfloving-Betty-Dodson/dp/0517886073?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
His Needs, Her Needs
http://www.amazon.com/His-Needs-Her-Affair-Proof-Anniversary/dp/0800717880?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
Cunt
http://www.amazon.com/Cunt-Declaration-Independence-Expanded-Updated/dp/1580050751?&camp=212361&linkCode=wey&tag=eroscoac-20&creative=391825
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My Body in the Mirror
How many of the people that you know are truly happy with their bodies? Be honest: Are you satisfied with yours? If not, you might have a body image issue. Body image does not just refer to aspects of our physical appearance, attractiveness, and beauty. It also has to do with the mental picture you have of your own body as well as your thoughts, feelings, judgments, sensations, awareness and behaviour.
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Dance – Your Way Into Your Body
We are inundated, on a daily basis, with multiple messages about how our bodies can or should look better from slimming and facials to skin whitening and body hair removal. There is just so much we can be unhappy with when it comes to your bodies. How can we ever be happy with the way we look, much less enjoy inhabiting the only body we’ll ever have? Could dance help us become more comfortable with our bodies? I asked three female dance instructors:
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Faking Orgasm – Good or Bad?
When you fake an orgasm, you are essentially putting on a show for the benefit of your partner. Your reasons could vary from “getting it over with”, “sparing his feelings”, misleading yourself with “what he doesn’t know won’t hurt”, to the inner satisfaction of “pulling it off” and “getting away with it”. Whatever your reasons, it is important to call a spade a spade: you are lying to your partner, and more importantly to yourself.
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Five Tips for Sex Dates
Sex does not magically happen. You are stymied by a lack of time and energy and having kids have only caused sex from being erratic to the point of non-existent. You love your spouse and want to keep an intimate connection. However life gets in the way. Sex has turned into a dull routine and you don’t know how to rekindle your connection. Recognise that having a healthy and positive sex life takes effort, and scheduling sex is a part of it.
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Think Yourself into Health
The Buddha is purported to have said “What we think, we become.” If your thoughts could change your life for the better, wouldn’t you do it? Of course! But, what thoughts do you change? All of us have an inner voice that speaks to us and us alone. Self-talk is that inner running dialogue you have with yourself. When you allow this voice to become overly negative or critical, it can deplete your energy and destroy resiliency.
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Gurls of Singapore
There is a new beauty pageant in Singapore. It’s named TruMe, an online transgender beauty pageant organised by Action for Aids; it will be officially launched next month.
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Don't Try. Be.
When I was in my third semester studying for my Doctorate in Human Sexuality, I went to the Florida Sex Therapy Institute to complete a Certificate in Sex Therapy. Dr Susan Lee, my teacher, introduced me to her clients I bumped into and her counterparts as ‘Dr Lee’. My first reaction was “Wait a minute! I am not a Doctor yet!” I felt like a fraud.
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Oral Action
How can a man best use his tongue to bring a woman to orgasm? What are some techniques he can try? Our fingers are hard, dry, and possibly chafing. On the other hand, your tongue is warm and moist, hence probably superior to the penis in giving her an orgasm. Also it is easier for most women to achieve clitoral rather than vaginal orgasms, and oral sex is very effective in triggering such orgasms.
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The power of play
I have a question to ask you. Amidst the hustle and bustle of your busy work and personal lives, when was the last time you played? Close your eyes and try recalling some of the happiest moments in your life: What might they be? Whether this memory is of you as a child or as an adult, chances are, they involved some sort of play.
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The Perfect Valentine’s Day Dinner
What are some tips on the ways a guy can impress a girl with the perfect Valentine’s Day dinner date? Generally, women’s sexual fantasies tend to be filled with more romantic interludes. The whole works would mean: the perfect venue for that perfect date – a 5-star hotel, an elite restaurant, or even a yacht; reservations; elements of ambiance such as candles, flowers, music or musicians; and the icing on the cake would be a thoughtful gift.
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What is Considered a Low Sex Drive?
What is considered a low sex drive for females? There is often a sexual desire discrepancy between the male and female. I like to first emphasize that just because you have a lower sex drive than your partner does not necessarily mean there is something wrong with you. What this means is that you need to be aware of this difference and together come with creative ways to fulfil both your sexual needs.
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Today’s Parent: Account of a Tuition Survivor
I had tuition from when I was in Primary One until Secondary Four. My younger sister started from when she was Kindergarten Two. She started early because she wouldn’t leave me alone during my tuition lessons – insisting on playing with me, talking with me, peeping on me – she felt left out. I, on the other hand, hated being forced to take supplementary lessons I did not need. After a succession of tutors who quit – one of whom pinched me – I realised that my mother was going to continue forcing tuition down my throat. I eventually settled on the one I thought was the nicest.
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“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience by which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.” - Eleanor Roosevelt
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Sexuality Coaching
Sexuality coaching is conce ed with the physical, psychological, social, emotional, and spiritual makeup of an individual. It can address gender, gender role, gender identity, sexual orientation, sexual preference, and social norms as they affect physical, emotional, and spiritual life.
- 15 min consult – S$25 only.
- Private Coaching – Starts from one hour with different packages. Can come in as an individual or couple.
- Intensives – Can be four hours, one day, or multiple days. They are customised to your specific learning needs
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Life Coaching
Life Coaching is about breaking down the barriers, which prevent change from happening and creating the ideal environment for positive action to take place. It is a totally holistic approach which looks at the present and sets goals for a more successful future.
I also do shadow work which does addressing and releasing the thoughts and beliefs which are holding us in opposition to source energy and source perspective, the part of us that is not a match to who we truly are. Same rates as above.
Telephone Access
For greater convenience, telephone coaching or counseling is available through Skype. This option is extended to clients whom I have already met at least once. If you travel or other schedule demands make this the preferred option, please email to arrange.
Answer Sexuality Questions Via Email
At S$10, ask a factual question related to sex or sexuality and I will answer you within 72 hours! Note: This has to be a straight forward question where a clear answer is possible, and not applicable to personal sexual issues as it is not possible to diagnose or treat via email. Payment via Paypal.