Oliver JR Cooper
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- Abuse, Awareness, Behaviour, Boundaries, Defence Mechanism's, Emotional Intelligence, Happiness, Men's Psychology, Movie Metaphors, Relationships, Self Image, Self Realisation, Social Causes, The Ego Mind, Women's Psychology.
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- Toxic Shame - Is It Defining Your Life?
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Author of 28 books, prolific writer, teacher and consultant, Oliver JR Cooper, hails from England. His insightful commentary and analysis cover all aspects of human transformation; including love, partnership, self-love, self-worth, enmeshment, inner child, true self and inner awareness. With over three thousand, seven hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behaviour, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice.
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Oliver JR Cooper Books
A Dialogue With The Heart: A Collection Of Poems And Dialogues From The Heart
http://www.amazon.com/Dialogue-Heart-Collection-Poems-Dialogues/dp/1491203765/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1410104833&sr=1-2
Trapped Emotions: How Are They Affecting Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Trapped-Emotions-They-Affecting-Your/dp/1499208561/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1407679404&sr=8-1&keywords=oliver+j+r+cooper
Childhood: Is Your Childhood Sabotaging Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Childhood-Your-Sabotaging-Life/dp/1502703718/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1425651244&sr=1-1
A Dialogue With The Heart - Part Two: A Collection Of Poems And Dialogues From The Heart
http://www.amazon.com/Dialogue-Heart-Collection-Poems-Dialogues/dp/1505633125/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_5?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1425651244&sr=1-5
Toxic Shame: Is It Defining Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Shame-Defining-Your-Life/dp/1505315565/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1425651244&sr=1-3
Abandonment: Is The Fear Of Abandonment Controlling Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Abandonment-Fear-Controlling-Your-Life/dp/1508714800/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_5?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1430830507&sr=1-5
Child Abuse: Were You Abused As A Child?
http://www.amazon.com/Child-Abuse-Were-You-Abused/dp/1518693946/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_7?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1453242180&sr=1-7
A Dialogue With The Spirit: A Collection Of Poems And Dialogues To Help You Grieve The Loss Of A Loved One
http://www.amazon.com/Dialogue-Spirit-Collection-Dialogues-Grieve/dp/1515329968/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_8?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1453242180&sr=1-8
Trapped Grief: Is Trapped Grief Sabotaging Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Trapped-Grief-Sabotaging-Your-Life/dp/1512129127?ie=UTF8&qid=1464281033&ref_=tmm_pap_swatch_0&sr=1-1
Why Does He Behave That Way? Why Do I behave This Way?
https://www.amazon.com/Does-Behave-That-behave-This/dp/1530559960?ie=UTF8&qid=1466289110&ref_=la_B00QC5LARE_1_10&s=books&sr=1-10
Boundaries: Are You Boundaryless?
https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Boundaryless-Oliver-JR-Cooper/dp/1535324740/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_6?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1474841586&sr=1-6
Inner Child - Is Your Inner Child Controlling Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1537603396/ref=sr_1_6?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1476613494&sr=1-6
Childhood Trauma - Is Your Life Being Defined By childhood Trauma?
https://www.amazon.com/Childhood-Trauma-Your-Being-Defined/dp/154234462X/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_13?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1484857007&sr=1-13&refinements=p_82%3AB00QC5LARE
People Pleasing - People Pleasing Is Your Need To Please Others Sabotaging Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/People-Pleasing-Please-Others-Sabotaging/dp/1544169027/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1490611623&sr=1-11
Loyalty - Is Your Need To Be Loyal Sabotaging Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1973796198/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1502650385&sr=1-1&keywords=Loyalty%3A+Is+Your+Need+To+Be+Loyal+Sabotaging+Your+Life%3F
Trauma – Is Trauma Sabotaging Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1975893441/ref=sr_1_9?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1506002072&sr=1-9&keywords=oliver+jr+cooper
Inner Child - How To Heal Your Inner Child
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1721077871/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i1
Self-Awareness: How To Develop Self-Awareness
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1726060586/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i4
Purpose: How To Find Your Purpose
https://www.amazon.com/Purpose-How-Find-Your/dp/1091023573/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1568814745&sr=8-16
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Critical Thinking: Is It A Surprise That Some Women Who Were Abused As Children End Up As Porn Stars?
Recently, a porn star committed suicide, and this was said to be due to the abuse that she received online. Based on this, it could be said that the people who abused her online were responsible for her death. The Trolls This is then an example of what can happen when someone is treated badly on social media. What this shows is that the saying, ‘sticks and stone may break my bones, but words will never hurt me‘, is not completely true.
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Porn: Does Porn Have A Negative Effect On Men And Women?
If someone wanted to relieve themselves sexually in the past, they may have had a magazine or a paper to look through. This probably would have meant that at least one person would have seen them buy it. There is the chance that this was not something that bothered them, or it might not have fazed them. And once they were no longer interested in a magazine/paper, they would need to go through the whole process again. It’s All Changed
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Critical Thinking: Are Men’s Lives Being Destroyed By Porn And Glamour Models?
Nowadays, it is incredibly easy for a man to view porn, and if he wants, he can also keep it light and check out different glamour models. The former can take place by going to certain video sites, while the latter can take place by using social media. One way for a man to see both of these options would be to say that they are both harmless, and that neither of them will have much of an effect on their life. After all, it is not as though they are harming anyone by viewing these kinds of things. A Buffet
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Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Be Addicted To Porn?
If a man is in a position where practically his whole life revolves around his mother, it is likely to show that he doesn’t feel comfortable with his own needs. Along with this, he is unlikely to even be in touch with his own needs. Therefore, he will be out of balance but he won’t realise this. But, even if he does realise this, he probably won’t feel comfortable doing anything about it, and he probably won’t believe that he can do anything about it either. Self-Neglect
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Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause A Man To Be Addicted To Porn?
At this point in time, a man could be in a position where practically his whole life revolves around viewing porn. Therefore, if he is not working or spending time with friends, for instance, he could be viewing it. Then again, there could be moments when he views it when he is at work. If so, this is likely to have a negative impact on his ability to focus and perform at his best. Caught Up
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Addictions: Are Addictions A Bad Thing?
When it comes to current societal problems, the word addiction is often mentioned. And there are certain things that are generally spoken about, when it comes to what people are addicted to. These are often: drugs, alcohol and gambling for instance. And due to the exposure that these addictions have received over the years, they have become the symbols of addiction. This has lead to varying degrees of stigma being attached to them. However, even though one can clearly become addicted to these things; there are also many other things that one can become addicted to.
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Celebrities: Are Some Celebrities Hypocrites?
When it comes to a famous actor or singer, for instance, it could be said that their purpose is either to act or to sing. This is then no different to how a plumber or an electrician, for instance, is going to have their own purpose. Now, this is not to say that a singer or an actor won’t do anything else in life, as they are bound to have other interests. And the same can be said if someone is a plumber or an electrician. One Difference
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Addiction: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Have Addictive Personalities?
While some people are able to drink alcohol or even take drugs without their whole life being taken over, there are others who are not able to exercise the same level of self-control. If they were to drink or to even take drugs, they would soon find that their life has been taken over. One is then unable to go a day without drinking and/or taking drugs and they have then lost their self-control. But while it would be easy to say that these are the people who have problems and the people who don’t drink or use drugs are fine, this would be far from the truth. Addicts
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Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Emotionally Abandon Themselves?
Although someone has emotional needs, it doesn’t mean that they will be aware of these needs let alone do what they can to meet them. If this is the case, these needs are largely not going to be met. When it comes to their emotional needs, this will relate to their need to be seen, heard, supported, encouraged and loved, amongst other things. As these needs are typically not going to be met, it is going to have a negative impact on them. One Outcome
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Mother Wounds: Can A Mother’s Fear Of The Masculine Cause Her To Emasculate Her Son?
In general, a man could be passive, easy-going, not stand up for himself or be assertive. Consequently, he is seldom going to take action, express his opinion, stand his ground or assert himself. Most likely, this is going to stop him from being able to live a fulfilling life. For example, he can have a job that is not going anywhere and is sole-destroying and he can be in a relationship where he is continually taken advantage of. The Norm
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Empathy: Can Embracing Our Pain Lead To A Heightened Sense Of Empathy?
If one was to look back on their time at school or to a time when they were playing sports, they might remember a moment when someone fell over or injured themselves. Now, as they picture this in their mind, they might see that some people laughed and some people didn’t. One way of looking at this would be to say that there were people who stayed in their head and people who went into their heart. When one stays in their head, it can be easy for them to avoid their feelings; just as when one brings their attention into their heart, it will be possible for them to feel another’s pain.
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Defense Mechanism: Dissociation
Dissociation is the result of trauma we have experienced in our life. And by dissociating from the intensity of the trauma, we can minimize the suffering caused. With these experiences being subjective in nature and usually extremely overwhelming for the individual, they may however seem insignificant and even trivial to other people in the same situation. Once the event is pushed out of the conscious mind and into the unconscious, it is very often forgotten about. This form of selective amnesia can last for years and even as long as a life time in certain instances.
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Oliver JR Cooper
''We repress parts of ourselves and we then project those parts out into the world and in turn, become the victims of our own projections'' - Oliver JR Cooper ''Friends are a gift and not a right'' - Oliver JR Cooper ‘‘Whether our life will rise or fall will depend on the quality of our relationship with ourself and as an extension of that - our relationships with others'' - Oliver JR Cooper ''In a dysfunctional family, the word 'family' is often seen as a license for abuse'' - Oliver J R Cooper ‘’Trying to achieve perfection is a bit like trying to get to the end of a rainbow, not only is it impossible, it also doesn’t exist '' - Oliver JR Cooper ‘It is easier to hate another, than to look at what we hate about ourselves’ - Oliver JR Cooper ''How emotionally healthy someone is can be known through how functional their relationships are '' - Oliver JR Cooper ''Whereas the mind has ideas about life, the body is life. There is no separation when it comes to the body and life’’ - Oliver JR Cooper
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